What is your recipe for love?!
Answers:
Make sure he/she is your best friend!.
When you argue, don't bring up the in-laws or anything that happened more than 24 hours ago - that's garbage (and garbage always stinks)!. And never, ever call names!.
What you are fighting about is not THE reason for the fight!. Talk it over and see why you are upset!. You may be arguing because he came home later than he said he would be from work, but in reality, the arguement is that you need to work together on finances - two different areas, but both necessary to deal with!.
It helps if you also hold hands while talking (then you can't punch him <GBG>)
Never go to bed angry with each other!.
Decide to put the other person first!.
Decide to WORK at your relationship - just like a job, it takes work!. It also takes nurturing!.
Keep the lines of communication open!.
Romance each other - it's the little things that matter, like helping with a household chore, buying her one rose, fixing a dinner he really loves!.!.!.
My husband and I met in high school, "went" together for five years and have been married for almost 45 years!. I tell people he had to think about things during the years before we were married!. I knew the first time he kissed me that we were meant for each other!.
When we kissed, I "saw" a ranch house, big yard, lots of kids and a dog!. We never got the fence or dog!.!.!.<G>
Yes, we have times when we get angry and things get in the way but the fact that we try to do the things I've written here has kept us together and more in love now than when we first fell for each other!.
And anybody can have this if they are willing to make the marriage work!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
When you argue, don't bring up the in-laws or anything that happened more than 24 hours ago - that's garbage (and garbage always stinks)!. And never, ever call names!.
What you are fighting about is not THE reason for the fight!. Talk it over and see why you are upset!. You may be arguing because he came home later than he said he would be from work, but in reality, the arguement is that you need to work together on finances - two different areas, but both necessary to deal with!.
It helps if you also hold hands while talking (then you can't punch him <GBG>)
Never go to bed angry with each other!.
Decide to put the other person first!.
Decide to WORK at your relationship - just like a job, it takes work!. It also takes nurturing!.
Keep the lines of communication open!.
Romance each other - it's the little things that matter, like helping with a household chore, buying her one rose, fixing a dinner he really loves!.!.!.
My husband and I met in high school, "went" together for five years and have been married for almost 45 years!. I tell people he had to think about things during the years before we were married!. I knew the first time he kissed me that we were meant for each other!.
When we kissed, I "saw" a ranch house, big yard, lots of kids and a dog!. We never got the fence or dog!.!.!.<G>
Yes, we have times when we get angry and things get in the way but the fact that we try to do the things I've written here has kept us together and more in love now than when we first fell for each other!.
And anybody can have this if they are willing to make the marriage work!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
trust
a good ear
affection
the words "i love you" spoken with sincerity
compromise
admitting when you are wrong
saying good night at night and good morning in the morning
bountiful kisses and hugsWww@FoodAQ@Com
a good ear
affection
the words "i love you" spoken with sincerity
compromise
admitting when you are wrong
saying good night at night and good morning in the morning
bountiful kisses and hugsWww@FoodAQ@Com
1 cup kindness
2 cups forgiveness
5 pounds faith
this has worked for me for 40 years!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
2 cups forgiveness
5 pounds faith
this has worked for me for 40 years!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Never go looking for the ingredients just live and it will find you!.Www@FoodAQ@Com