Apparently soymilk does not work well with Jell-o pudding?!
Answers: I used two cups of light vanilla silk and it just would not settle. Should I have used less? I mean I took a half hour and it's still sitting all soupy in the fridge.
One cup of soy milk.
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1 (1 ounce) box sugar-free instant pudding mix, any flavor
1 cup cold soymilk, any flavor
Empty pudding mix into a bowl.
Add soymilk and whisk until smooth.
Refrigerate until set.
NOTE: Try with different flavors of pudding and soy milk! Or, make double chocolate pudding by using chocolate pudding with chocolate soy milk. I usually use Soy Slender, but I'm sure your favorite brand will work just fine