What do you when ur boyfriend for almost a year thinks i should cook, clean dinner dishes for his n mine ?!
Another solution would be: Make a menu together, buy the food together, buy a nice wine together, cook the food together, enjoy the meal together, then clean up together. Notice the words TOGETHER
You've been with each other for almost a year, OK.. when did he become lazy? Did you jump and do everything for him while you were getting to know each other (dating), but now that you are together (hooked) do you regret your past mothering... and want him to forget who you pretended to be??? Has he changed or have you? These are hard questions, but you need to communicate with each other about this. Tell him you want a partner. If you did fool him, you also must admit that you made a mistake and together you need to work on this problem. Is he a keeper or are you just spending time with him. If he is being considered for a long lasting relationship you both need to step up to the plate and GROW UP. You both got here, now..... you have to decide if you want to stay. Talk about it. If you are going to spend a lifetime or a season will decide how much effort you both put into this relationship. Good luck.
Answers: Simple solution would be: buy a cookbook, you cook and clean up one night, he cooks and cleans the next.
Another solution would be: Make a menu together, buy the food together, buy a nice wine together, cook the food together, enjoy the meal together, then clean up together. Notice the words TOGETHER
You've been with each other for almost a year, OK.. when did he become lazy? Did you jump and do everything for him while you were getting to know each other (dating), but now that you are together (hooked) do you regret your past mothering... and want him to forget who you pretended to be??? Has he changed or have you? These are hard questions, but you need to communicate with each other about this. Tell him you want a partner. If you did fool him, you also must admit that you made a mistake and together you need to work on this problem. Is he a keeper or are you just spending time with him. If he is being considered for a long lasting relationship you both need to step up to the plate and GROW UP. You both got here, now..... you have to decide if you want to stay. Talk about it. If you are going to spend a lifetime or a season will decide how much effort you both put into this relationship. Good luck.
if you live with him and dont work then clean the dishes and cook dinner.
otherwise tell him to kiss your ***..................unless he helps
DUMP him on his lazy buttock, yer not his mom.
if you live together you BOTH should divvy up the chores and do them. If not then get another boyfriend! this one wants a momma!
He does not have, but you guys have to the share work.
Well it's one thing if you do it on your own cuz you want to..itz another if he is expecting it or demanding it of you!!! if he is being selfish or demanding then screw that.....tell him to kiss your a**!!! use your best judgement..only you know the full details in this situation...but dont be bullied or made to be a slave!!!
Good Luck!!!
Tell him to get off his lazy a$s & do it himself
He must think you are his mother for some reason. He should be able to do some of the house chores such as cooking, dishes, laundry or making the bed in the mornings (otherwise kick him out of the house since you do all the work around there).
If he is working and I am not, then its okay. But if I am also working, I would just cook my own share and leave him to starve.
Or get him to do other chores.
your the girl
Hi Jodie, I have a rule in my house, might work for you.
Who ever cooks does not have to do the dishes.....works for me.
Send him an invoice for your housekeeping services, billed at whatever hourly rate you think is fair. Then zero it out with a 'girlfriend discount' or something similar. If he's not an idiot, he'll get the picture and start pitching in.
Can he cook n do all cleaning as well.
If he can't den u tell him dun expect so much.