Should I go to the party after humiliating myself?!


Question: Last week I went to a house celebration/party, and had a shot of tequila, which ive never had before. Well, it hit me like an hour later and I puked in my bf boss's sink and clogged it up! The daughter had to clean it out, and I was so dizzy, people had to hold my hair back while i puked again and had to help me walk out! Now were invited to an xmas dinner party tonite with the same people... I dont know if I should go and apologize to the daughter, or not even show up at all! Help!


Answers: Last week I went to a house celebration/party, and had a shot of tequila, which ive never had before. Well, it hit me like an hour later and I puked in my bf boss's sink and clogged it up! The daughter had to clean it out, and I was so dizzy, people had to hold my hair back while i puked again and had to help me walk out! Now were invited to an xmas dinner party tonite with the same people... I dont know if I should go and apologize to the daughter, or not even show up at all! Help!

Why not? Everyone has their humiliating, drunken stories, I'm sure they understand. I've had plenty of my own and I despise puking in front of people because I feel so awkward in front of them afterwards. But it ends up fine. Just have fun (and definitely apologize to the daughter..that's another reason to go).

You should go. If they invited you back I am sure there are no hard feelings. Stuff like that happens more then you think, aside from being a little embarrassed, I wouldn't be to worried. Just stay away from any tequila shots this time! ha ha

a shot of tequila? that bad?

Yes go and apolgize. They invited you back, they already forgave. Just puke in the toilet this time please.

you should not go

Show up, apologize one time, then have fun.

if you have nothing else to do, why not? and if the subject comes up just try to make it seem funny or try to laugh about it.

Oh, heck yeah!
Just stay away from the tequila.lol

I would go and definitely apologize. Since it is the season of gift giving anyway, perhaps you could take her a small token gift. I'm not sure it would appropriate to give the boss a gift since there may be work guidelines around it, but if it is a possibility I would consider that too. Hopefully you can make a better impression this time :)

well definetely go other wise that is the only impression they will only have of you also give the daughter a XMAS gift a BIG one and dont drink again everything will blow over eventually

Go and don't drink.
Apologize privately and act dignified and in control. Hey, we've all done dumb things and somehow we survive.

All that off of ONE shot of tequila???

What ELSE did you have to drink???

i think you should go. i would probaly feel embarrased at first but just talk to whoever cleaned the sink and say "hey im sorry about everything that happened the other night. i feel so horrible." and leave it at that. Enjoy your holidayss

Go as if you hide away it will only make you feel worse. Just put this experience down as one of those that you would rather not have made and will not ever forget.
Say sorry to the person who had to clean it up and offer to be there for them if they ever get in the same condition. Take a small gift as an apology as who could be mad at someone so considerate.
Just be prepared to take a bit of stick for it and hold your head high. We all have an experience like that we would rather forget. I know mine is vomiting on the front lawn of my boyfriends house and my now brotherinlaw having to clean it up.

You should go. Why? Because, first, you were not purposely getting drunk, neither vomited on purpose. If they have been gracious enough to count you in again, go and have a great time!
Just stick to soft drinks, to be safe.

One of many reasons why you shouldn't drink at an office Christmas party.

Just laugh it off and learn from experience.

Go to the party, and bring a bottle of tequila as a gift and use it as a segue to an apology and graciously laugh it off. And, don't drink at the party.

No! Go to an AA meeting instead.

hell ya,Go ,and go proud.Only person who probaly cares is you. So dont hurt yourself just laugh about it ,your the shiz

Go back........just stay away from the Tequila.





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