Do you think I can have a slubmer party this year for my birthday party?!
Answers: I've had a slumber party before, but it got kinda out of hand because we were up late giggling and laughing. My mom didnt let me have one this year for my 10th birthday, and I really want to have one this year before I go off to Middle School! Do you think I'll be able to have one this year? There are about 7 girls I want to invite, but do you think I have to let them all spend the night? Becuase I'm pretty sure my mom won't want that many girls spending the night!! Please help!
Start smaller. A few weeks before your bday, have an "undernight" with those seven girls, where they stay until late but don't actually sleep over. [It's still fun, trust me!] For your actual bday, ask your mom if you can have a sleepover with two or three of your closest friends. This way, you won't be hurting anyone's feelings, because you already had a party with the other girls.
It's a better idea not to ask your mom for so many girls to sleep over since the last time it didn't go so well. If you build up your mom's trust now, you'll be able to have bigger slumber parties as more birthdays come by.
Since you said you want to have a slumber party with all your friends before middle school, try to plan one during the summer. It's much easier to have a slumber party in the summer because you don't have to worry about getting enough sleep or having homework done or anything. You'll still get your slumber party, just not for your birthday.
If u invite them you can't just make some go home and have some stay. that would be really rude.
how should i know if u can have one, im not ur mom.
When my mom lets me have sleepovers it is 5 girls, tops! I would not go more than that. I usually invite three. Sure people get hurt but that is not your problem.
Have a birthday party at your favorite restaurant and only invite your two best friends to spend the night, and be sure to be very quiet and go to sleep early enough to show your Mom and your friends parents you can be trusted. Best Wishes Have Tons of Fun and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
You need to talk to your mom and tell her you wont misbehave, although giggling is all part of a slumber party. And you need to talk to your friends and explain the rules in advance.
If you only invited 3 and told your mom you would do better this time, I bet she would let you. 7 is just too many.
I agree with Janice10.... Go to a resturant, a movie,etc., etc.....But if u wanna only have some friends sleep over, dont invite the others.. that would hurt their feelings..HAPPY BDAY AND GOOD LUCK!
staying up late and laughing and doing girl stuff. I can't tell you if your mom will let you or not, but I used to let my daughter have them all the time. All you can do is ask and tell her that you won't be real loud and listen to what she says. Good luck and Happy birthday
sure u can just tell the people that are sleeping over to come early and hide there stuff and then the people not sleeping just tell that your mom wont let u hold a slumber party! and dont talk about the next day or week or ever! and tell the girls sleeping over not to spill the beans tell them how is and is not sleeping over
Ask your mom. If she says yes, than go for it. If she says no, explain to her (maturely) why you think you should. She might reconsider, or invite a couple less people.
Another idea is to have your friends over one night, then a sleepover with 2-3 friends, maybe a week later, or earlier...
that way you can still have a sleepover and a party with all of the girls.
sure have a slubmer party
Ask ur mom if u can.....were not ur mom....we don't know
well first u have to have ur parents let u then u can have a slumber party and invite and1 u want dont overfill though because then sometimes not good things happen
