Ok so im freaking out parrents at boy girl party!!!?!
Answers: my parrents come to all my birthday parties and this year im turning 15 and want to have a girl/boy party. I have been to other boy/girl parties and the only thing they do at these parties is grind!!! If my parrents are going to be there i dont want that to happen what should i do???
why and i think you should just be yourself and if they think you are freaky then they are wrong you shine!
Lol uhhh drug your parents haha jk
Have your party some where else besides your house?
Dont have a boy girl party
I don't think anyone is going to do anything with your parents there. Just make sure you have something fun for you and your friends to do and make sure that your friends know ahead of time what is going to happen.
If parents are around boys and girls won't grind. That's just weird and everyone will feel weird doing that if you're parents are watching. Ask your parents if you can have the party in the basement and they can stay upstairs, so they don't have to be right on top of you while you're having the party. If not, then don't expect a grind party.
also, don't even take advice from Wood_vulture
he sounds like an absolute idiot.
Have it somewhere public.. not to kiddish like go bowling on a retro bowl night or ice skating something your age but will be fun and your parents can also supervise without you being worried
First of all, calm down! It's your party so try to have fun. I guess it depends on whether or not you want you're parents there. If you do want them there, maybe you should remind all of your guests before the party to behave. I really don't think they'll be a problem; kids are usually clean around adults.
Find another party away from them or dont grind, you really dont have to many options. Well, you could talk to them and be friends with them. Dont try hiding all your real self away from them. Their biggest shock would be them un-expecting or even knowing their son/daughter to do these things. Just expose it to them so you can avoid the embarrassment at the party. Or if that dont work you can always sneak off and then come back in a clown outfit and maybe you can fool them!
tell your parents you are at an age when they do not need to come to your parties. tell them HOW you are a responsible teen (i pray you are). tell them to trust you (and don't let them down by doing something crazy!) as for if you want to have a party...ur 'rents r within rights to b present. & if at ur party there's gonna b bumping and grinding, i strongly suggest not having one! its ur 'rents house, they kinda have to b there...
Have your birthday party at a hotel. Rent a couple of rooms out of the way... in case the grinding takes on some urgency...
Since it isn't in their house, it's less of a threat to them if the kids (hopefully there'll be a large number) do whatever. I mean, a public space, someone else's kids... unless a fight breaks out, do 'em if ya got 'em.
Learning to deceive and out maneuver your parents is an important step in separating from them. While they'll logically admit they eventually want grand-children, they'll most likely want you to be 35 and married before you do anything more exciting than hand-holding (or that's what they'll pretend).
Besides, you'll eventually have to choose between the three different people whose opinions matter greatly at different levels of personal development
If you're a child, your parents are most important.
If you're an adolescent, your peers are most important.
If you're an adult, your opinion is tops. And remember that this is the goal.
Hope that helps.