How can I tell a friend that she cant come to my party because she needs to get help ?!
I sent my friend an inviation thinking she was all clean of drugs and everything!. Turns out a few of my friends saw her the other day and they told me shes really cracked out!. Thing is I cant have someone like that at my party!. Family and older people will be attending and I dont know how she will react and there will be a bar in there!. I cant be watching over her 24/7 and I dont want my guests around her!. I feel like a bad person for saying that and not wantin her to come but she deff needs to get help!. How do I tell my friends I dont want her there without sounding like I dont care about her!?Www@FoodAQ@Com
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Be honest with her!.!.!.tell her you are uncomfortable with her being at your party based on recent behavior!. If she starts acting defensive walk away !.!.!.!. it's your party!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.have fun!Www@FoodAQ@Com
call her & ask her if she is definitaly coming!. if she says yes tell her your parents (or someone else) saw her the other day and they did not like what they saw and IF she is doing drugs tell her she cant come to your party on them! she must not do them prior to your party or during!.
a real addict just wont show up KNOWING people are on to her
that way you seem like you want her there but you know she is using and she is not welcome around your family like thatWww@FoodAQ@Com
a real addict just wont show up KNOWING people are on to her
that way you seem like you want her there but you know she is using and she is not welcome around your family like thatWww@FoodAQ@Com
Tell her just what you just told us!.
You're concerned about her and frankly cannot trust her to behave appropriately around your family and friends!.
Tell her if and when she's ready to seek professional rehab help, you will help her, but let her know there's no place in your life for people who are not a good and positive influence on yourself and those you care about!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
You're concerned about her and frankly cannot trust her to behave appropriately around your family and friends!.
Tell her if and when she's ready to seek professional rehab help, you will help her, but let her know there's no place in your life for people who are not a good and positive influence on yourself and those you care about!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Tell her
"I really would like you to be at my party, but i don't want people to think badly of you, if you get really drunk!. If they get a bad first impression, it will last forever, and i know you aren't really like that!.
I can help you get professional help, to make you better, and we will have a huge party for you when you do get better"
You could change the words, remove/add bits!.!.!.!.
xxWww@FoodAQ@Com
"I really would like you to be at my party, but i don't want people to think badly of you, if you get really drunk!. If they get a bad first impression, it will last forever, and i know you aren't really like that!.
I can help you get professional help, to make you better, and we will have a huge party for you when you do get better"
You could change the words, remove/add bits!.!.!.!.
xxWww@FoodAQ@Com
Since you are her friend, you need to speak with her!. Tell her how much it hurts you to do this but she needs to know that people who care for her will not allow her to keep damaging herself!. Until she is ready to come clean, she cannot have relationships with you!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
thats actually being very mean!. If you hate her so much then why you are hiding your face!. Be straight to your preferences and if you dont want her to be there be truthfull and talk to her!.
We by staying clean out of few dirty habits thinks that we got all the right to choose people and to hurt them in turn!. Better you confront!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
We by staying clean out of few dirty habits thinks that we got all the right to choose people and to hurt them in turn!. Better you confront!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
She has no respect for you or herself so she is not a friend and hurt feelings is just a cop out!. She chose drugs and I would call her up and say I didn't know you were using drugs again and I don't want you to ruin my party!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Tell her the truth!. Let her know it is not that you don't care about her but if she chooses to live the way she is now then there are times she needs to stay away!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Just tell her!. You love her, but not the drugs!. She's welcome, but the drugs aren't!. It's that simple!. Don't make any excuses for a drug addict!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Who are you Mother Theresa!? Nothing wrong with telling losers to take the walk, hey maybe she'll get the hint but I doubt it!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Some friend you are!. Ashamed of her are you!? Don't give her your false pity!. You aren't worth it!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Sometimes tough love is needed!. Be gentle but tell her that you know she is still druggin'!Www@FoodAQ@Com
Make a copy of this question & the answers you receive!. Your friends will understand!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
just tell her straight out thats all u can doWww@FoodAQ@Com
Just talk to her like a friend, but be honest!. You just don't think she should come to the party until she get's some help!. Just tell her there will be alot of people there and right now it wouldn't be a good thing for her to come to that!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
you cant come to my party because you needs to get help !!!Www@FoodAQ@Com
