I have a very important scholarship dinner? any advice?!
I have a very important scholarship dinner? any advice?
This dinner gives me a chance to meet the judges for the interview that is going on tommorow. What should I say at the table? any ideas tips? things i should do?
Answers:
Keep in mind that it is an interview and follow the lead of the interviewer/judges. Even though it is being held at a dinner, you must put that second and concentrate on the real purpose, and that is to land the scholarship (job). So that you do not appear to be ravished, I would suggest that you nibble on an apple or an orange before you shower. This way food will not be your main focus once you arrive. It is not too late to brush up on your table etiquette either. If you do not have an available etiquette book, then in the search box, just put in the word [etiquette] and that will bring up a host of sites for you to choose from that will help you. Do not slouch at the dinner table and keep your elbows off of the table. Don't forget to assist the ladies with their coats and their seats. Before the dinner, pay particular attention to your hygiene (especially your breath) and to your clothing selection and to your shoes. Listen closely and answer all questions with forethought and confidence and to the best of your knowledge, without saying so, though. Do not go off on a tangent when answering any of the questions. Do not use slang words and forheaven sake do not use vulgarity. Remember that you are in mixed company. Don't be a name dropper either. Respect all of the guest that are there even if you do not care for them. Do not linger too long with any one interviewer/judge. Remember, that you are being judged by many and not just one. Keep the music low and turn it completely off during dinner. The type of music that I would suggest is smooth jazz. And don't forget to keep it very low so that everyone can enjoy each others company, as well as, hear your replies to their questions.
Now, relax and have confidence within yourself and remember that they have all gone through similar interviews in their lives. Once the affair is over, do not loiter. Afterwards, be sure to thank each and every dinner participant. Even if you do not get the scholarship (job), you must leave them with the parting feeling that their time was not wasted, and you can convey this to them by your most gracious exit.
I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK!
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don't say anything that will insult them.
Do a little research on who you are meeting. People love to hear themselves talk so if you find out something about one of the judges - such as they are very involved in environmental causes, or they ran a walk a thon for cancer last year, or even if one has kids that play soccer- whatever- the key is find something those judges will want to tell you about.
Ask a "dumb question"- such as "I heard you were really involved in some great causes last year. How did they go? Are you doing it again this year?" They'll go on for a while and you'll start the ball rolling.
Keep listening - that's key. Don't talk too much about yourself, I'm sure they've already read your application, essay, recommendations, etc. Be yourself, relax, and be polite. Have fun!
Wear something clean and sit properly at your chair since they don't want to think you don't clean up after yourself. Also, when talking, make it sound like you know what you are talking about. Make sure you are wearing a good tie since most of the scholarship people want to see or observe how one wears the clothes and acts how they live on a daily basis.