Best friends forever?!
ok, so im friends with these three girls, were actually like best friends, and sometimes they can be like really mean!. for example, they always make fun of how skinny i am!. whenever i say like im hungry they will b like well thts a first, when in real life, i eat what i want when i want, and most if its junkfood!. also they make fun of me for not having a boyfriend, then when i do have one they make fun of me for that too!. but they can also be really nice, like when im alone with one of them, but all together is just horrible!. do you think they are my real friends!? what should i do!?Www@FoodAQ@Com
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yea, tell them that what theyre saying isnt funny, if they trying to be!. then again, they could mean it as a joke!. my friends do that too, but i know that theyre just playing around!. When your not alone w/ them, then theyre prob!. ust trying to act cool around everyone else!. personally, thats not what a real friend is to me!.!.!.so just confront them about it!. nicelyWww@FoodAQ@Com
Just tell them how you feel!. It looks like your friends form a third personality when you are all together, and you are on the receiving end of their meanness, why!? Good friends normally don't snide on another friend!. They may have their own insecurities towards you!. Perhaps you are better looking because you are skinny and they are fat, or perhaps more intelligent than they are!. On the other end, you could be the timid one in the group, and they have sensed that you could be bullied!. If this is bullying from an insecure group of "friends", leave them, they surely do not deserve you!. The choice is yours, that's part of growing up!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Personally, I would stand up to them- tell them how you feel!. If that doesn't help, don't be afraid to tell someone- adults are very useful at times!. Hope this works!Www@FoodAQ@Com
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first of all do they say it as a joke or to be harmful!?!? if its jokingly just ask them to please stop it as if they were good friends they would make you feel better!. also i was in the same situation it was me and two other girls tho!. it turned out that they had a sleepover just the two of them just b4 one of them moved away and she started text and phone bullying me!. she stopped after a while because my mum rang her up and told her that she wasnt happy with the messages being left on my fone!. it was horrible tho and i couldnt get to sleep coz i was crying so much!. anyways!.!.!.
i think yu shud go hang out with some other people for a while and if they say something to you then tell them how what their saying makes you feel!. if they dont confront you then hang out and make friends with new people!. joining clubs lets u meet people with the same interests as you and will stay friends for longer if theres something you have in common!. i hope you get some better friends that deserve you! Hope This Helps!!Www@FoodAQ@Com
i think yu shud go hang out with some other people for a while and if they say something to you then tell them how what their saying makes you feel!. if they dont confront you then hang out and make friends with new people!. joining clubs lets u meet people with the same interests as you and will stay friends for longer if theres something you have in common!. i hope you get some better friends that deserve you! Hope This Helps!!Www@FoodAQ@Com
