What To Do If You Have a Bad Guest?!
I invited 2 friends over to a sit down dinner for the first time!. She demanded to see my whole home (2 stories)!. Some rooms were closed door and she wanted to know which rooms those were, and wanted to see my 2 sons rooms upstairs!. She has a broken ankle and wears a cane and is 43!
She also proceeds to go to my fridge without permission to get some ice, and a cup from the cupboard, and I insisted on doing it myself but she ignored it!.
Later on, I had left my purse aside on the kitchen counter, and I caught her snooping on my cell, looking at my pictures and messages!
What is her problem!? Is something wrong with her!? Please explain in detail what could this person want from me and why would she act this way!? Is this normal!?
I was shocked because I would never ever act like this in someones
home!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
She also proceeds to go to my fridge without permission to get some ice, and a cup from the cupboard, and I insisted on doing it myself but she ignored it!.
Later on, I had left my purse aside on the kitchen counter, and I caught her snooping on my cell, looking at my pictures and messages!
What is her problem!? Is something wrong with her!? Please explain in detail what could this person want from me and why would she act this way!? Is this normal!?
I was shocked because I would never ever act like this in someones
home!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Answers:
She's nosy busybody!. She was probably snooping around your house fridge purse & cell phone looking for something to gossip about with her other friends!.
All you can do is just not have her over again, keep her as an acquaintance, but don't let her into your life!. She obviously has no sense of boundaries & what kind of compulsive person goes into someones purse when they're not looking!?Www@FoodAQ@Com
All you can do is just not have her over again, keep her as an acquaintance, but don't let her into your life!. She obviously has no sense of boundaries & what kind of compulsive person goes into someones purse when they're not looking!?Www@FoodAQ@Com
She's a snoop!. many people are!. Living vicariously through other peoples experiences, and gathering knowledge on others to use in gossip!. Don't invite her back!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Ok, you are higher class than her!. Some peoples lives are very casual, and she may never have had an experiance like this!. A 2 story house is like a field trip to some people, and she may have gotten her own ice bacause she feels that is the polite thing to do, not to be waited on!. She had a less formal upbringing, some ppl were never taught about hostess roles!.
If she went into your purse, that is a problem!. I assume the cell was in your purse!. If I feel I know someone, I look in their phone, bu not everyone!. Only ppl who are constantly showin thier cell anyway!. Well, one person!.
She may have felt it was polite to show interest in your home, like ppl went through my new car when they saw it for the first time!.
Expecting everyone to have been taught proper manners is unrealistic!. My two neigbors used to come over drunk everyday and just sit on my floor!. I was cool with it, but you see, thats not polite either!.
She has not been taught like you have!. Remember, good manners are generally taught, this distinguishes your upbringings!.
How did she demand!? that would be useful to know!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
If she went into your purse, that is a problem!. I assume the cell was in your purse!. If I feel I know someone, I look in their phone, bu not everyone!. Only ppl who are constantly showin thier cell anyway!. Well, one person!.
She may have felt it was polite to show interest in your home, like ppl went through my new car when they saw it for the first time!.
Expecting everyone to have been taught proper manners is unrealistic!. My two neigbors used to come over drunk everyday and just sit on my floor!. I was cool with it, but you see, thats not polite either!.
She has not been taught like you have!. Remember, good manners are generally taught, this distinguishes your upbringings!.
How did she demand!? that would be useful to know!.Www@FoodAQ@Com