Turning 14 years old and I don't want my party to be stupid?!?!
Answers:
Don't worry about making it cool. The more you care, the lamer it will be. As far as games, things like taboo, cranium, karaoke, and charades are always winners. It wouldn't be cool to plan this out, but games like spin the bottle, twister, and 6 minutes in heaven make those high school parties legendary. Just remember to be careful and indifferent... at the same time. Those two qualities can make you the high school god of parties.
As far as the rule of no alcohol or weed: I'm not making suggestions on whether this should be legislated at your party. Just make sure everyone involved, including your parents, and invited friends are aware of the possibilities. Again, be careful.
Last thing, be aware of who's coming. Parties like this can get out of hand when friends invite their friends. The safest course of action is to only invite a few people and let them know that you want to approve of anyone else they want to bring.
Good luck, and remember: be careful.
Just try to invite people who would be comfortable around eachother. About the games, not sure haha.
Movies and pizza? Just hang out.
just bring in bubble wrap it works like a charm
dont be a nerd
tell ur mom