does this sound like i`m invited to the party?!
so i asked her who she was going with and she said by herself.. i said `what??` and then she said `no actually im going with kim.. do you want to come too?`
does this sound like she really wants me to come with them, or not?
Answers:
Not really. If she'd wanted you to go with them she'd have included you in the plans initially. You forced an invite by asking her who she was going with.
I'm wondering what kind of "bff" is this...who taunts you by purposely telling you she's going to the club knowing full well you're going to ask who she's going with.....and leaving you out of the equation??
If she had kept her mouth shut, you wouldn't have been the wiser. She sounds deceitful to me (first saying "by herself" and then adding "actually with Kim"). This friendship you have with her sounds like it's a one-way street. If I were you, I wouldn't confide anything to her...watch your back.
Technically, it's an invitation, but it's not the kind you want, now is it? :/
What about asking her? Say, "Hey, about going to the club mate, would you actually like me to go or not?" That way there's no mistaking what it is exactly.
I think that if she told you in the first place that she was going to the club, then she just wanted to bring it up so she could invite you. If you have any doubt, ask her if she really does want you to come, or if she wants some alone time with her friend 'Kim'.
no ,just being nice
I don't think so/:
