What should I do at a 21st birhtday party?!
What should I do at a 21st birhtday party?
I am having a 21st surprise birthday party for my fiance this month. The problem is I dont know what all these people are going to do. We are doing the cake thing but other than that nothing is planned. Should there be something for everyone to do or should I just let them hang out and do their own thing? It is going to be our friends and then some family, so I just want everyone to have a good time. Any ideas?
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It's up to you if there are structured activities or if it's just an excuse to drink (which is sad if you go that route).
Personally, I'd think it would be fun to have a theme to it other than just his age. You could have a BBQ and grill shish kebabs and burgers. Or you could have something fun and interesting, like a bunch of decks of cards and let people play poker, euchre, etc. You could have all of the guests bring baby toys for him, then donate them all to a local shelter in his honor.
To anyone who thinks that turning 21 is all about drinking, I'm glad you're not in my family. You'll be lucky if you don't lose a friend that night from drinking and driving if alcohol is the only thing that matters at that party.
let them do there own thing 21st birthdays are for drinking with friends and girlfriends just let the party go the way it gos dont plan anything cuz it can get crazy have fun dont drink and drive
-jeff
Have some stuff for them to do, but nothing set. For example, whenever my sister and I throw a party, we've always got a few decks of cards on hand because our friends love playing cards. if you have the space/money/drive to, you could have something like a foosball table, dart board, pool table- things like that where people can play and mingle and relax all at once. Always have some good music going of course and plenty to eat (we always order 10 pizzas double cut) and drink. Happy 21st to him!
get drunk and play drinking games. isn't that what a 21st bday is all about? i think soooo..
If you can, some simple games... or a hot-tub set up in the garden but mostly at that age the friends will just want to dance, drink and schmooze!
if there were not any family i would say get a big cake and have a woman topless jump out of the cake;) he would love it! i would do the same for my man
The BEST party I've ever gone to was a '80s theme party. The clothes were so much fun. The ripped baggy shirt over a tank w/ the poofy hair and bright red lipstick. The music...awesome. The keg...awesome. Do a surprise family thing one day and then you HAVE to do an '80s theme party for the friends. You won't ever forget it. What better time than the big 21.
Drink!!!!
go to a club wit a bar,an drink an dance ur *** off!!!lol