I asked a woman out for coffee, but she said "No my standards are higher then that"?!

Question: I asked a woman out for coffee, but she said "No my standards are higher then that"?

Hi, so there is this woman who is in my accounting class. We both have the same major and we sit next to each other in class. We have had so many conversations so far, and she seemed interested in the conversations so far. So i asked her today right after class if she wanted to get some coffee. She said "No, my standards are higher than that"? I am not a big coffee drinker; I didn't realize there were different levels of coffee places. Should i have asked her to an more upscale coffee house. Can anyone suggest a coffee house that would meet the standards of a woman with a discerning palate

Thanks, I want it to be an perfect first date once i get the coffee house date settled.

Answers:

you have to ask yourself ,, does she even like coffee? or was she half joking about it . I agree that asking someone for coffee is a pleasant way get to know someone if their indeed interested. If i may suggest and since you have nothing to lose ,,, ask her out to dinner but have a couple of upscale places in mind before asking her and see what she says . perhaps that is what she is more interested in and since she wants higher standard there ya have it . if she go's along with it , keep the conversation not so personal as it tends to make one feel uncomfortable like your planning and plotting your next get together.

IMHO That's really rude of her, she sounds very high maintanance. She could've at least offered a different option for you both to go to. Are you sure she's interested? Good luck

Condescending ***** - ignore her, forget her.

What a ***** - she should have appreciated your asking her out - why waste your time

Do you know her religious beliefs? I know Mormons don't drink coffee, so she could be referring to that.

What you should do is ask her out to Barnes & Noble (one with a cafe). If she's a very devout Mormon, she probably won't even feel comfortable going into a coffee house, so a Barnes & Noble cafe is a very non-threatening place to enjoy a conversation in. And it won't upset any religious beliefs she might hold, and bookstores are classy places, too! Added bonus: You'll have books and magazines all over the place, so it'll give you something to talk about if there's a lull in the conversation.

Next time you see her, say, "Hey, have you tried the cinnamon scone at the Barnes and Noble cafe, yet? It's so good. Not to mention their hot chocolate is prefect for cold days like these. I was going to go over there later today because I want to chill, browse some books, and get a scone. And it would be really wonderful if you would accompany me."

And if she still refuses, then maybe she really wasn't all that interested. But good luck!

(By the way, have them heat up the scone! Yummy yummy!)

I'm a Mormon

The consumer Foods information on foodaq.com is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.

I asked a woman out for coffee, but she said "No my standards are higher then that"?!

Food's Q&A Resources