Question:
How do I ask if I can go to a party?
Okay, so there is this party and I never received an invite. The boy said that we should just ask him if we want to be invited because he forget a lot of people. So, I asked him. I accidentally asked him three times. Once on Skype (but I had no idea that it went through because I uninstall-ed Skype and got the new version and it never showed my recent chat history), once on Facebook, and my friend also offered to ask him. I asked for another friend of mine and me to go. The friend that asked him said that he said he would talk to the other guys and give me an answer the next day. So the next day came, and I was at lunch and the friend that I had asked for told me that he talked to her about it and said I literally asked like 17 times (it was 3 and I didn't mean to) if she could go. She didn't know though. He said he would send her an invite. BUT WHAT ABOUT ME?! I feel like he thinks that I was already on the invite list but a part of me is saying maybe he doesnt want me there. I really really really want to ask him again for a follow up if I can go. But how do I ask him WITHOUT being annoying.
I just am getting really depressed over this and I feel left out because all my friends are going. It's a sad thing. :(
Answers:
It's kind of weird that he had to 'talk to the other guys' before he could say yes or no. I wouldn't ask again, because it would look desperate. Just wait and see what happens. He's already aware that you asked because he talked about it with your other friend. Either ask him directly in person, let it go, or just show up to the party with your other friends anyway. He likely will not ask you to leave or call you out in front of everyone.
Don't ask him again it will make u sound desperate and he already knows that u wanna go. Just wait a couple days and see what happens if he doesn't invite u then he obviestly doesn't want u there sorry
Me
I'm not trying to be pushy but I would just go.
