my mother is mad at me because my husband keeps sneaking the cookies and extra dinner in the basement?!

Tell her that all the food is going for the monster that lives in her basement.

Why not move out?
She's not having a neverous breakdown, you need to make sure your husband is respecting her wishes. Also crayons do wash off walls but if you kept a closer eye the child your mother wouldn'thave anything to complain about.Also your husband shouldn't have to sneek food if you are contributing enough for groceries and all other costs. And why would he wear her slippers they're hers he needs to learn bounderies before she kicks you guuys to the curb.

OMG! ARE YOU KIDDING ME RIGHT NOW! How old are you ? 12 ? I think your Husband, (you did say husband)? needs a good kick in the butt! If he was doing that kind of crap at my house, he would be wearing my slippers somewhere besides his feet!! Your Husband needs to go out and get you too a place to flop, cause it sounds like to me he is using your mothers house as a flop house. I wouldn't have a nevous breakdown i'de throw your butts out and keep the kid till you got straighten out. She is doing this for you and her grandchild you need to have more respect for your mother and keep your kid from writing on the walls and your husband from eating more than he needs too, If I were your mother I would ***** you right out of her home,. she doesn't need to chill out you need to get out!! Have A Nice Life Losser!

Since you're in her house you all need to act respectfully so that your Mother isn't having a nervous breakdown. Otherwise, if you can't do that find a place of your own.

Mom doesn't need to chill out, your husband needs to respect what is hers.

Move out.

move out or teach your husband boundaries