My girlfriend made me make her a sandwich.?!
When she came back down the stairs, she told me she would forgive me if i made her sandwich. She liked yelled that to me. I wanted to be a nice boyfriend. So i went into the kitchen and began to fix her a good tuna sandwich. I putted her favorite toppings on it also. Before i finished making her sandwich, she slapped my behind. Then she made me put on a pink apron. She said good job honey. Next, when i was done with the sandwich, she told me she wanted wheat bread. So i took the turkey off the white bread. Then she said no honey, make it again from scratch. So i had to remake the whole sandwich again on wheat bread. I could see a smirk on her face the whole time, but i was trying to be a good man to her. Then she went back into the living room, and she sat where i was sitting at. Then she changed the channel, then i had to watch a soap opera marathon with her. While she was eating the tuna sandwich i fixed her.
I felt humiliated doing that because she did not even say thank you when i finished. I did everything she asked me to, but i get no kiss or hug or even a thanks. Is it normal for your girlfriend to behave like this.
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Its normal ! you saw a smirk on her face , right ?? she was just challenging you to see if you actually love her ! and i think thats sweet :D
She was joking or trying to prove the point that sometimes men expect women to do anything related to the kitchen. Or the entire scenario is made up for our entertainment. Either way make her sandwiches more often, get a 2nd TV to watch what you want and enjoy.
yeah, that's important, whether or not it was turkey or tuna
Your relationship is doomed. You need to move on.
Read your question. Was it turkey or tuna?
Is this a joke? I think it is
What do you mean you "fixed" her?
Also, first of all, you asked HER to make you a sandwich.
She got mad.
Later she asked you to make HER a sandwich, if I'm reading it right?
So, basically, if you don't want to take it, then don't dish it.
Imagine - she may have felt the same if she'd made you a sandwich in the first place.
Why should she make you a sandwich just because you are lazing around watching a movie?
Thing with girls is- if you push it, you will feel the fallout X 10.
Admite you were an insensitive, ungrateful fool, and had no right to ask her to make you food- you were being a moron and an idiot etc.
She wants to hear that.
In future, make your own sanwich.
It has nothing to do with the sandwich first of all. This is the result of other things you've been doing, or other things people have being doing, that have communicated to her that she is worth less than men. Ask her what you have been doing that makes her feel like she is worth less than men, or worth less than you, and try to change those things. Then, make sure you tell her how much she is worth to you.
Regarding her humiliating you, she was just trying to prove a point like the one of the other posts says.
Your little friend is a classic punisher who will forever be kicking you in the nuts and bolts over virtually nothing. You played the wimp, she held the whip. If this sort of thing appeals to you, then you two ought to be happy. By your scenario, it seems you resented her behavior. She probably loved dominating you. The lack of thanks was a reall red flag. She's never going to be nice, so stop trying to be a 'good boyfriend" to her. She already disrespects you for kissing her ascot. EDIT. Now that I think of it, who are you to ask her to make you a sandwich? She indulged in overkill, though.
