is it OK to send an RSVP reminder?!
So. my question is- would it be rude to send those people a reminder via- facebook? Thanks in advance! :)
Answers:
I would make it generic - Hey, to those who replied, thanks, but if you haven't replied yet, please get back to me if you are coming.
YES, it's perfectly fine.
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Yeah it could make you seem greedy or something.
I know you are just excited about having a baby and all but they may not see it that way.
Still 28 people is a pretty big haul.
Congratulation.
The people who are hosting should call these people a few days before the shower to see what the deal is.
It is perfectly fine to send a reminder. I do it when I throw parties. Just a light "don't forget to RSVP by Feb 28!"
No go ahead
can i come?
Yes it's rude especially before the RSVP date.
DO NOT directly contact your guests unless this is a function where you will be serving a catered sit-down meal. If the food will be buffet or family-style, just use your best judgment as to how many are coming.
P.S. You're not supposed to host your own shower...it's always rude to ask for gifts on your own behalf. A friend or family member ought to be hosting.
If the restaurant requires an exact head-count, the HOST of the party ought to contact the people who have not responded - NOT the guest of honor.