14th Birthdaayyyy! :)?!
Answers:
you're turning 14! he should be fine with you inviting guys, and you could do something together, like see a musical if you can, watch a movie, go to dinner... and then at night, the guys could go home and then you and your girl friends can have a sleepover!
$700 is NOT that much, you're NOT gonna be able to throw a good party for $700. You could MAYBE afford a house party, which you HAVE to invite boys to. Just have it when your parents aren't there, it's not that hard. And then you don't have to explain the boys. Problem solved!
Jesus Christ, $700? For a fourteen year old?
At sixteen, my birthday party consisted of a five dollar pack of gum and a hug from my parents. I hate kids.