Should we have a party?!
Answers: next year it will be 25 years since me & my beloved first met 7th jan 1983, wigan pier, they were the days! dancing round our handbags in front of the DJs frog! (you`ll know what i mean if you ever went there!). then in june it will be our 20th wedding anniversary, so my question is should we hold a big party,or should we wait for our silver wedding or should we have a party this time and then another party in 5 years time? bear in mind that we dont need much of a reason to throw a party in our house.
Have two bloody huuuuge partaaay's!!! :D yes I LOVE PARTIES!
Yer It would be really fun !
It's always a good time for a party!
how come he had a handbag
Yes you should have a great big one.
throw a party and have fun and dont forget to PARTY LIKE A ROCKSTAR!!!!!! GOOD LUCK
you guys should party but only if you invite me ;D
Of course you sholud! Do not miss it!
have your party. you survived putting up with the same person for 25 years. that is defiantly a reason to celebrate
Go ahead and have a huge party now. You don't know what the next five years will bring. You may not be able to do it then. Live & love for now!
if you have the money, throw a party... life moves forward, and gone is the past, but makes it sad if you dont spend party worth to remember in memory lane... better if there is some event to remember than none at all... so, go party!!! and enjoy!!!
Go for it! Any excuse for a party I say. Also, I bet your friends would be happy for another night out. I know I would.
First of all let me congratulate you for your remembering the date when you and your beloved have met first. Very nice of you. Next for leading and coming to the end of 20 years of married life.
I suggest you to deffer from throwing a party now. That too, when you don't need much of an occasion to throw a party in your house.
The following are some of my suggestions , which you may please consider, if they appeal to you, and convince you 100 %.
1.Please open a good bound book, and start filling it up with the incidents happened in your life as well as your beloved, chronologically.
Once you make it up until today, update it monthly.
2. You still have 2 and half months time before 7th Jan 2008. You have 8 months before June 2008.
Please go round your place of residence, find out a Home for the Disabled, deaf and Dumb, Poor destitute children, Old age Home, schools run with donations and bright students coming out of it , who need help and institutions like these.
3. Try to come to an amount to share from your funds, to render hep in one of the listed ones. But see that it should be for real good use. May be for cloths to give them shelter from cold.
Food to eat for living
Books to read during school courses.
Money to make use of additional teachers , if the institute does not have enough teachers
Wall clocks in each class room
Some kind of medical help, donating medicines and cost of a doctor's service for free medical health checkup
Any other novel ideas you may get.
4) Then review all the 20 years of your married life. Find out instances, where your part played is something great, ideal, worth of yourself. Please make out the period, context, your part and other details like a story. this if you are able to pass on to your children, how happy they will be!!!
5) List out all your avoidable mistakes committed.
You need not show to anyone, but take a resolution that you are going to modify yourself not to repeat any of them.
6) Find out how happily you were together. also think, if you could have been more happy, and so what you could have done for it. Please do them now in your 21st year, and be a good wife.
7) Birthdays and marriage days are not to throw parties, but to be used as intermediate stations, for subjecting to a personal RE-VIEW of what all we did, and what we could have done better, but not done. This review is so useful and acts a s base for restructuring ourselves for a more meaningful life ahead.
8) Dear sister
I will be happy if you do some novel things and make every piece of your hard earnings to be used selflessly for the needy, at this happy occasion of your two decades of married life.
Love to you and best of luck. My greetings to your beloved too.
Am I invited????,,,Latics till we die!!
