how do french and italian people eat ?!

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"French"
* Always say please and thank you* French bread is always torn off rather than cut. Do not dip it into soup or sauce.* Do not place your elbows on the table* Finish everything on your plate before taking more. After you finish eating, put cutlery parallel, vertically on center of plate so the waiter will know to take away your plate. While you are still eating your meal, place cutlery to sides of your plate at 4:00 and 8:00, opposite sides of the plate, signifying you wish to keep your plate.* Lift your forearm from the table while moving the fork to your mouth.* If you are served cheese as a wheel, cut from the center into slices (like pie). * Aways keep both hands on table while eating, do not have one hand under the table even if you are not using it.
"Italian"
Keep elbows close the the body so as not to disturb those sitting on either side.
Keep both hands visible on the table (not resting on in your lap lap). In times past this was necessary to show that the person was not holding a weapon under the table! Food is managed with both hands. Fork in the left hand and the knife in the right hand. Pieces are cut one at a time. Whenever possible, fruit is eaten with a fork and a knife -- when in doubt, watch the host(ess). One eats with the fork in the left hand while holding the knife. When you are finished eating, the knife and fork are placed on the plate together, diagonally across the plate.Come bearing gifts...If you have been invited to dinner, never arrive late. Chances are the hostess is preparing a first course risotto or pasta and neither one can wait to be eaten. You should arrive with a gift - a bottle of excellent wine or flowers. This thanks the hostess in advance for preparing a good meal. "Vengo a bussare con i piedi" I will come and knock on your door with my feet means that your arms are filled with gifts.Be prepared for the shortest cocktail hour on record - more like a cocktail minute. You will be offered an aperativo which is usually a drink with a tiny bit of alcohol in it. Everyone goes "Salute" , drinks it down and then you move to the table.
The knife and soup spoon are placed to the right. The fork(s) are placed on the left. Water and wine glasses are placed to the upper right. The large plate for the second course holds the smaller plate for antipasto.When the smaller plate is removed, it is replaced by a bowl for soup or risotto or pasta.
The most important lady is served first; then the most important gentleman is served and the hostess is served last. Serving plates are passed around informally. The antipasti can be passed around twice. Bread should be in small pieces so it is not necessary to cut it at the table. After it is served to you, you may rest the bread to one side on the tablecloth - do not ask for a bread plate.
Each course is served in a serving plate. Warm antipasto should be served before cold antipasto
Broth and soups should be served in soup bowls the serving bowl is not passed around and seconds are never offered. Pasta, on the other hand, should be served in a large serving plate and seconds can be offered. Fish is served whole and divided afterwards. Roasts are served already cut or divided into pieces. Never carve a roast (or turkey) at the table. Salad is served in a plate put to the left of each person and must be dressed after it arrives at the table and served before the course it acompanies. Salad is served in a glass, china or wooden bowl never in a metal bowl. When cheese is served, at least 4 different kinds must be offered. The cheese should be removed from the refrigerator at least one hour before it is served. Before dessert is served the bread must be removed from the table. Sweets and gelato are served immediately after the cheese and before the fruit.
Cakes are presented whole and then cut into pieces at the table.Pastries are served on a tray with dessert wines and coffee. Clean plates and food are served to the left and plates are removed from the right one at a time. Water is on the table when the guests are seated. The water glasses are filled never more than one-half full. Wine can be served by the man of the house at any time. Again, the glass is filled only half full. Water and wine are served from the right. If different wines are served, the glasses must be changed. Wine should be served in the following order:
light, white wine
light red wine
heavy red wine-Red wine should be opened ahead of time. Dessert wine is served at the table.Coffee and liquers should be served in the livingroom.

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Italians love family, and friends around. The table is the center of entertaining. Meals last for hours, and only the best of everything is served. Good table manners are extremely important and families eat together. On Sundays and holidays, the best china and silver come out and dining is a formal event. Meals become solemn and last most of the day.


Tell me is the shift key broken on your keyboard? French and Italian are names of nationalities and MUST be capitalized. Not to mention the first letter of the beginning of your sentences.

Iwork with a gal that is 100 percent italian, raised in us..first off, they love the fresh baked bread with meals, with olive oil,not butter..ick for this swede. also, any holiday whether its 100 above, or 100 below, all the women get together to make "raviolies"..a tight knit group, but love that pasta!

With their mouths, teeth, tongue, using utensils!!!