Inconsiderate?!
Inconsiderate?
Is this inconsiderate?
You order & pay for speciality steaks and your partner knows you love thick juicy steaks. Your partner likes chinese food but you don't like chinese food because you eat it all time in consideration for your partner. You come home to find your partner has cut your speciality steaks into small pieces cooked them with soy sauce and cooked them as a stir-fry.
Would this upset you?
Answers: Upset? Ruin good cuts of thick steak (like Omaha) on stir fry is grounds for justifiable homicide! Especially when cheaper cuts of meat don't make much of a difference in a wok. If I were you honey, I wouldn't be expressing my outrage on YA. I'd be sizing my partner up for a verbal beat down! (Or maybe a physical one, depending on the cost of the meat they ruined!)
You probably feel violated. Your partner just forced their will on you, making you eat chinese whether you wanted to or not. Absolutely - it is called stealing and trespassing; but, your partner most likely does not know the difference because he was never taught the difference.
Doing such things can never bring peace in any relationship and you should maybe both study the ways of peace ... and it is o.k. to say you don't want chinese foods. Maybe you could get you a juicy steak with the fixins and have your partner get a take out of chinese food and go to a park or some place romantic to eat - like a nice spot near a lake, river or stream and discuss how you simply like to eat what you want to eat - and that is what makes you what you are that attracted your partner to you in the first place ... and then -
Tell your partner how you felt when you saw how your partner comletely desicrated your juicy steak and how you will forgive your partner once your partner buys you a 25 pound chunk of prime serloin ...
Use the link below to obtain a course that would teach your partner how to bring peace into your lives ... you can use it as well - world leaders have been crying out for this and we just cannot produce it quick enough to get to all nations ...
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Aintmyfault Yes Yeah, I would get a little upset, but here's where my philosophy on life comes in and that is: Don't sweat the small stuff. Life's too short to be spent fighting over steaks. Be the bigger person and let it go. Oh man, that was not good. He/she should have cut his/hers up made his/her own thing and made yours as you like it. But sometimes people do only think of themselves and when confronted they would think you were inconsiderate. But you have the RIGHT to be understood by your partner, afterall, it's part of the job. To understand and be understood. Some would say in grand scheme of things you should let it go, but it is an indicator. Take note but don't let it be a deal breaker. Good luck with that. I would get annoyed... but I'm sure he/she didn't mean to. Did you specify that you wanted to do something with those steaks? You have to communicate these things. I hope you did just talk to him about it in a calm manner. Oh yes & I would make my displeasure known.
The least he could have done was asked if you were saving them! My BF NEVER touches special food I buy without asking me first.
If he knew you were, however, I'd just wait & cook something special that he bought for himself the way I like it, but he can't stand! MOST DEFINITELY! YES--YOU SHOULD BREAK UP WITH HIM...
You'd be better off with a guy who broke your heart into a million pieces just for fun. Man thats just WRONG!!!
I do like Chinese But when I want a steak I want a steak.
I would never take my womans food. I'd tell him to eat it by himself, take some money out of his wallet (to cover what he ruined) and go out to dinner by myself and order the biggest, juiciest, most mouth watering steak on the menu. I'd go home, tell him to forget about eating anymore Chinese food in the next century since he can't seem to respect your feelings the way you do his, take a bubble bath and go to bed ALONE. That'll teach him not to mess with good steak for stir fry! yeah, a bit Sorry for laughing, I know its not funny its more of a OH my God type of thing! I can't believe he did that but I suppose you didn't tell him you were saving those for anything special did you? Uh, yeah! That would be a pretty rotten thing to do. That would make me think that maybe I need a new partner!!!!! Seriously though, not a cool move. I would take issue with that and make my partner go out and replace what he/she took!