Guys- why would a guy think it is ok to hit on a girl in front of her mom????!
and then yesterday this guy who was about 25 years old kept trying to joke with me and asked my mom are you sure i shouldn't have alcohol in my pina colada. then he kept trying to ask me when my spring break was and try to poke fun at how much i ate for like 2 whole minutes it got me so embarassed and and he kept talking and trying to make me laugh
why do these people do this in front of my mom don't they know this is so embarrasingly weird? do you think this is ok or inappropriate?
Answers: i am 16.a couple months ago i was eating with my mom at a restaurant and our server was trying to flirt with me. my mom even noticed him doing that. she said i think he likes you and he came back to our table about 10 times and kept asking hows everything over here? when it isn't even the type of restaurant where the server is supposed to check back with you. this restaurant was at an all inclusive spa resort we went to, so noone carries cash and there are no prices for food so no tips. he was my age.
and then yesterday this guy who was about 25 years old kept trying to joke with me and asked my mom are you sure i shouldn't have alcohol in my pina colada. then he kept trying to ask me when my spring break was and try to poke fun at how much i ate for like 2 whole minutes it got me so embarassed and and he kept talking and trying to make me laugh
why do these people do this in front of my mom don't they know this is so embarrasingly weird? do you think this is ok or inappropriate?
Society has gotten so casual that young people do not even know what it means to respect others. They grew in "permissive" households and so they've never been told "that is not appropriate." In my opinion, this sort of behavior is crude and without class.
Oops, I'm not a guy but maybe they're working on getting a better tip! You obviously look older than 16 and maybe they don't realize your mom is your mom?
They might continue to razz you because they're getting a "rise" out of you. Just ignore them when they do this or don't show that they're embarassing you. (give them dirty looks.) And get used to it... it's going to go on and on... it's just the nature of guys and maybe bored servers. :-)
I believe that guys who tease you or flirt with you in front of your mom are those without bad intentions. The first guy at the restaurant checked on your table about 10 times cuz he cared about you and wanted to make sure that you had everything you needed. The 25-year-old guy joked with you cuz he wanted to make you laugh and see you and your mom enjoy yourselves.
It's those who always try to flirt with you privately that you may want to be careful about.
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