How do You Have fun and not Use Drugs Alcohol and sex ?!
I Have Been 21 for 3 months and my friends are turning 21 in June and they are super exited about going to Vegas getting wasted and having no recollections of the events from the night before, they want to get in fights and essentially be assholes all weekend... this makes me wonder is this what happens once we are 21 seriously I'm not really interested in drinking smoking or being in relationships, i have Responsibilities i work to pay for my school my friends just go to school we went to see Tron :Legacy for my Birthday and i had fun what else do people do besides that for fun what do you do ?????
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Go out for dinner, go to a movie, go to the Art Museum, play racquetball, play basketball, softball, go skiing or snow shoeing, try curling, go to a concert, go out dancing, rent a movie and make popcorn, join a book club, learn to paint, play board games or cards, take a class, develop a hobby. Anything you can do "drinking" you can do not drinking! I like your attitude. I choose not to drink and smoke as well. Life is great without alcohol and tobacco slowing you down.
hiking, bowling, dancing, movies, game nights (like board games), eating out, bonfires, etc...you don't have to drink at all the events. After all your friends are going to need a designated driver. But you will get tired of it. Don't worry, not everyone thinks this way. You said you were in school so I'm sure you will make new friends there that think more like you. Have fun while you're young but be safe at the same time! Good luck.
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that is why the legal drinking age is 21... because you should (hopefully) be past getting yourself wasted by then... perhaps they need to raise the drinking age for your firends.
go to the movies, go out to dinner, go play a sport or learn something new.
I'm 21 as well and have no interest in any of that either. For fun, i like to take pictures of nature, writing, reading, biking, hiking, and going to the movies.
go with a gang of "good" friends and have a paint ball session...
I had so much fun renting a paint ball field for a birthday party.. we had a blast....
also I once went to a midievil festival like thingy.. where we dressed up in costumes and everyone played like Lords, Ladies, or peasants.. there were people pretendint to ride horses and jousting.. it was fun also....
take a group of trusted friends on a "farm" vacation where you go to a working farm for a week, you get to do all sorts of farm stuff, have a hay ride,, bbq and everything.. Plus work in the working farm also..
there are tons of wholessome clean activities you can do that is fun....
You're a smart guy. No drugs, alcohol or even sex? That is a super plus. I am not the one to judge, but I must say something though. I think it is fascinating such a mature person who thinks beyond of his age is still spending quality time with his high school pals or child-like colleagues (who obviously cannot seem to grow out of their "wet dream" memories) Nothing personal. Just from what my experience was, I had to learn it the hard way. Now, I am living my life on my own, working hard, and studying for RN at college. To respond to your ideal question (if, that is, your friends can breathe in the concept), you can still be with them to have fun, but you do not need the CASUAL necessities to please yourself at a group festivity.
Personal experience.
