I don't enjoy party and alcohol?!
Hi, Everyone!.
I'm turning 23 this year, but all of my friends tell me that "I should grow up, I'm like lil girl"!. Coz I just don't enjoy going party, drinking alcohol and something like that!. I don't know why!. I hate to do that!.
whenever I hang out with my friends, they force me to drink alcohol and enjoy party!. I don't feel like comfortable with that!.
that's why sometimes I feel like I'm kind of different from other people!.
Is there anyone who has same problem with me!?
what should I do!?Www@FoodAQ@Com
I'm turning 23 this year, but all of my friends tell me that "I should grow up, I'm like lil girl"!. Coz I just don't enjoy going party, drinking alcohol and something like that!. I don't know why!. I hate to do that!.
whenever I hang out with my friends, they force me to drink alcohol and enjoy party!. I don't feel like comfortable with that!.
that's why sometimes I feel like I'm kind of different from other people!.
Is there anyone who has same problem with me!?
what should I do!?Www@FoodAQ@Com
Answers:
I think you are really cool!. However, I think your so-called friends are sad and pathetic!. They cannot truly make their own decisions and they don't know how to go about being an adult!. They are nothing but immature, naive people who are either the type that have become sponges as they blindly take in anything that is unfortunately portrayed in the media and commercials as "cool" or "expected" (<--whatever!), or they are simply ignorant people who are lacking in education, imagination and joie de vivre or in other words, they don't know how to really have a good time or simply don't have knowledge or culture to come up with their own things!. Or sadly, maybe they are the ones who simply don't have the balls to be who they are, pursue what they believe in, and say no!. Go out there and make new and true friends, people who share your tastes and values and will appreciate you, because you are a cool, simple and natural person who is more of what a human being is and what a human should be, and I think it's nice to have people like you around in society!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
i have the same issues i dont like to drink however i dont mind going to partys but my friends know that i dont drink and they are find with that i show up with a big bottle of water and just have a blast and every one knows that can always ask me for a ride home without worry
any way your issue sounds like you need to find some friends who can have a good time without the need for every one else around them to be drinking which means they need to do the growing up IMO
im 20 and go to plenty of partys and am a really laid back guy but i just look at it as destroying your body i figure i do enough of that every day that i have no need to help it along with drugs and alcoholWww@FoodAQ@Com
any way your issue sounds like you need to find some friends who can have a good time without the need for every one else around them to be drinking which means they need to do the growing up IMO
im 20 and go to plenty of partys and am a really laid back guy but i just look at it as destroying your body i figure i do enough of that every day that i have no need to help it along with drugs and alcoholWww@FoodAQ@Com
They're not really your friends if they are pushing you that much to drink!. You shouldn't have to do anything you don't feel comfortable with!. They're are plenty of other ways to have fun!. I suggest finding a group of friends that is more into what you enjoy doing rather then stick with friends who don't really seem to care about your feelings on the issue!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
There's nothing wrong with it, and any friend that "forces" you to drink when you don't want to isn't much of a friend!.
There are tons of people that don't drink or party - look up the straight edge movement!. There's nothing wrong with you for staying sober and don't let anyone tell you otherwise!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
There are tons of people that don't drink or party - look up the straight edge movement!. There's nothing wrong with you for staying sober and don't let anyone tell you otherwise!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
I'm 21 and I hate the taste of booze, but I just tell them to get over it, like it matters if I drink or not - I'm still fun even if I am sober!. Unfortunately people are stupid and they WANT you to drink!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
You should do and be whatever you hear tells you!. And be happy independent of the opinion of others!.
Do not let them through you down a path that does not serve you!.
There is nothing wrong with you!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Do not let them through you down a path that does not serve you!.
There is nothing wrong with you!.Www@FoodAQ@Com