How should i feel when friends forced me to eat fish as a vegetarian?!


Question: How should i feel when friends forced me to eat fish as a vegetarian!?
am so mad!.depressed!.last night i went to my friends house!.i m a vegetarian!.they fastened my hands and opened my mouth by force!.and they put some fish in my mouth!.and didnt let me push the fish out of my mouth!.!.!.i just went out as i was so mad!.now,how should i feel!?i ate an animal and now im sooooooooooooooo much depresed!.!.!.help meWww@FoodAQ@Com


Answers:
Wow!. First off!.!.!. dump those friends! That's just plain freaking awful!. That goes against your beliefs and it's just harsh!. As for how to feel!.!. just feel how you feel! You have a right to be angry and depressed!. You ate something you don't feel is right! However, don't be too hard on yourself!. You were forced! I know it's not the same!.!.!. but it's like rape!. Being forced to do something you feel is wrong!. It's going to hurt, but it wasn't your fault!. If it makes you feel better, do something extra special for another animal!. Adopt a pet, go feed the birds, volunteer at an animal shelter!. I'm not a vegetarian, so I guess I can't relate!.!.!. but please remember it's not your fault!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

I would be so mad but i do know how you feel!. My friend once told me that a sausage roll was vegetarian so i ate it then i found out it wasn't i went barmy!. I am a vegetarian!. Although vegetarians can eat fish i choose not to because it is still an animal in my eyes!. Don't beat yourself up about it friends can be cruel, you need to tell your friends it was really out of order and get them to promise to never to do it again!. After this try and forget it might be hard at first but its better than being depressed and remember vegetarians can eat fish!. GOOD LUCK!!Www@FoodAQ@Com

Dump 'em!. They have absolutely no respect for you!. It's one thing to say you're going to do it (like my friends), but it's another thing to actually do it!.
And if you feel like you can't "dump" 'em, make sure you get it into their heads that you do NOT want to eat meat!. And that if they try to do it again, you WILL not hang out with them!.
also make sure they know that you are extremely depressed because of what they did!. Oh, and don't be depressed because of your friends stupid actions!. They forced you to do it, so it is NOT your fault!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

First, to you who say fish isn't meat!.!. WRONG!!!
It is meat, FLESH,WHITE SOLID MEAT!!!!!!

well as for you, I think you talk to whoever did that to you & tell him how offended you were & that if they don't respect you for who you are "Vegeterian" then maybe you shouldn't be friends!.

However, if i were in your place at the time they pushed fish into my mouth, I would have thrown it out on the FISH PLATE before i left!! this way they'll never gonna be able to eat it & at the same tim, they'll know that they shouldn't mess w/you again!!Www@FoodAQ@Com

I'm inclined to agree with Fluffycat - your stories are getting a bit silly!.

Yesterday, 19 hours before posting this question, you didn't know whether vegetarians ate fish or not - you asked, here on V&V!.

If you genuinely suffered this assault, consider reporting it to the police, and dump those friends!.

But the whole story smells a little fishy to meWww@FoodAQ@Com

These people are not your friends!. I understand why you feel depressed, but please try and feel better!. You didn't eat meat willingly and you will never have to do so against your will again!. You need to immediately remove these "friends" from your life and find people who respect you and the lifestyle choice you make!. It wasn't your fault, so please feel better!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

IF THIS REALLY HAPPENED ~
1) You can not call these people FRIENDS!
2) That was assault & you can press charges with the police!. I think you should!.
You should not feel quilty, it was the same as if you were Raped, not your fault!.
You need some help both with your feelings & with finding justice on being abused!.
CONSIDER THIS If YOU HAD BEEN ALLERGIC TO FISH & YOU DIED BECAUSE OF THIS THEY WOULD HAVE BEEN CHARGED WITH MURDER!.!.!.!.The law is very strict on how we treat each other for good reasons!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

Those are not your friends!.
Good friends respect your decision becoming vegetarian, not be ***s about it!.

But we should not be telling you how you should feel, only you know how you should feel!.

If that was me though, I would stop being friends with them!. Those people are pure evil and not understanding of your own choice!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

What they did was very wrong and bordering on assault and you should probably forget about them as they are not nice people!.

Personaly, if people did that to my vego girlfriend I'd shove their own excrement down their throats!

If you feel really down about the situation you should talk to someone who is sensitive to your beliefs!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

They sound like awful friends!. They shouldn't force you to do anything you don't want to do!. You are you!. You make your own decisions!. And just keep telling yourself that it wasn't your fault, they made you do it, and they are the ones who should feel ashamed!. And dump those friends! :(Www@FoodAQ@Com

It was extremely rude and disrespectful to have done that to you!. In addition, it is illegal!. You were assaulted and a victim of false imprisonment (a felony)!. If you really wanted to, you could report it to the police!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

Wow, girl, if I were you, I'd so f*cking yell at them, even hit them, and not ever talk to them again!. I wouldn't want to know them!. Tell them a bit f*ck you from me if you talk to them!.

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You should not associate with them!. If they can't respect you, it's not worth it!. I'm a vegetarian and no one has ever force fed me meat!. Being force fed is not normal!. Don't hang out with them!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

It isn't about the fish you ate it is about the fact that they used torture techniques on you!. I'd get new friends if I were you!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

Call the police regarding the assault, and then get another hobby- trolling clearly isn't something at which you excel!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

I think your stories are getting a bit to far fetched now, was that whilst you were on the plane with the man offering you his pasta with meat!?
I would change your friends and stories!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

sounds like BS to me They broke the law just to make you eat fish call the police and press charges!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

Next time you fasten THEIR hands, open their mouths and force them to eat cauliflower!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

don't hang out with them!.they are not respecting you!.they just want to make you feel bad!.don't hang out with themWww@FoodAQ@Com

There are several odd things about this story!.

First, what kind of "friends" would fasten your hands and force something into your mouth against your will!? I think you need to find some new friends!.

Second, are you telling me that you have never eaten meat of mish in your life!? Obviously, your diet is your choice, but people have been eating meat and fish for thousands of years!. I don't think is will hurt you!.

Third, what it your reason for your vegetarian diet!? Apparently, your "friends" didnt's respect your reasons!.

I would say you have a right to be angry!. At the same time, I am wondering why you chose vegetarianism!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

You are an omnivore!. That means you are meant to eat both plants and animals!. There is nothing wrong with eating an animal!. Fish are full of protein and are good for you!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

Most vege's that I know eat fish!. What's so special about you !? Wake up and smell the coffee for heaven's sake !Www@FoodAQ@Com

fish isnt meatt!.!.!.Www@FoodAQ@Com





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