I need help with hitting on my boyfriend?!
I need help with hitting on my boyfriend?
when i get mad i tend to hit him and i swelled up his cheek and busted his lip too....im having trouble controlling my temper...please help me
Answers:
If you like kissing....hit him in the chest or the gut...that will keep his face nice. Don't hit below the belt if you like bed sport.
Since you have thi sunder the alcohol category i assume it's when you are drinking. Stop drinking. If it when you are sober, seek counceling.
Therapy, you man beater.
first of all, when u want to hit him, hit a pillow or something.
TRry not to let what he does get to u....just think its not my problem.
go and punch and squeeze a pilliow as hard as you can or.......on second thought........go get councling
I think you should see a psychologist to work out your anger issues. Showing anger the way you do is usually about something else. Find out what that is and work through it.
If you feel yourself getting angry, try counting to ten slowly before you say or do anything.
Also, keep in mind that domestic violence works both ways, so if your boyfriend should choose to call the police, you'll probably spend at least one night in jail (the police won't make you leave so you can come back after they've gone; instead, they'll take you away and give you some time to cool off).
You need to stop hitting. Take up a sport so you can get some of that aggression out. Never hit anyone. It will lead to a very bad lifestyle and will only get worse.
I'm no expert, but I would suggest this:
Come to him and tell him that first, you're sorry, and second, you want to do better.
Ask him to keep you accountable. Ask him to, whenever you hit him, grab your hand or something and tell you to calm down, or whatever helps you calm down.
Second, start thinking before you do anything. Anything at all. Before you open a cabinet, think about what you're about to do. This will train your mind to analyze your actions before you carry them out.
Just a couple tips-- I hope they help.
Much luck. =)
Kick him in the nuts instead so noone will see any marks!!!
you should get help on this, what are you going to do with kids when you have them. also, your boyfriend should never let you hit him,
crazy *** *****
have him hit you back that might work