Why does my alcoholic partner criticize me when I drink?!


Question: He has multiple DWIs' yet when I go have some drinks with friends, he belittles me. Yes, sometimes I will drink too much but I still function and hold a job. He still drinks daily anything he can get his hands on, yet to hear him say it, he never gets drunk. I have seen him go on 3 and 4 day binges without any sleep, showers or food. I can't even keep anything at home for myself cause he will wipe it out. Then I find him on here posting crappy complaints about me.

Answers: He has multiple DWIs' yet when I go have some drinks with friends, he belittles me. Yes, sometimes I will drink too much but I still function and hold a job. He still drinks daily anything he can get his hands on, yet to hear him say it, he never gets drunk. I have seen him go on 3 and 4 day binges without any sleep, showers or food. I can't even keep anything at home for myself cause he will wipe it out. Then I find him on here posting crappy complaints about me.
Maybe cause you're a gal. And seems to me its a male ego thing, perhaps belittling gals.

You know how guys are, we can't make them feel any inferior and gals can't be more superior.

If he's somebody you care for, then u gotta 'stroke' his ego a little bit. For instance, 'How you can drink so much' or 'oh what a good drinker...'

ALL LIES but if it makes him feel good. That's the first step.

Then after that its trying to make him shower or clothe up. As usual, gotta 'boost' his ego by saying 'Oh u smell sexier after a shower' or stuff like that.

Sounds like crap, but hey, that's how men are.
Idiots right?

(i'm a man and i know how sometimes we can be the world's biggest jerks... so hope this helps!)
Lolx!!!

I'm glad my answer helped!
The make-out sex must have been lovely~

But do keep the alcohol level in tab ya? Dun want him getting egoistic again rite?

Have a great weekend ahead!!! Report It

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    • There is nothing you can do for an alcoholic except try to get him help if he wants help. Otherwise, you are going to have to live with that sick mind as long as you enable him and drink yourself.
    all you can do is try to get him some help,if he'll let you,he's only mean to you because he knows he a drinking problem.be careful.
    because he expects more from you. he thinks you are validating his reasons for drinking. He really wants to find another reason to live.
    Misery loves company and that's what they are trying to do. I should know I was an Alcoholic for 13 years. You should seperate yourself from this person. Unless you do it's going to be a never ending battle. Trust Me.
    I agree with velofit7 and I am the alcoholic partner she is talking about!!! It will be a never ending battle and life is too short for bulls**t. She is "faultless" because of self denial, internalizes what ever I say, jumps on the defensive, becomes combatible and argumentative, and then doesn't even remember the conversation. There have been numerous occasions that I have sat at home while she is out several days of the week that I have not partaked in drinking. I leave the rubbing alcohol, cologne, NyQuil, and her grapefruit flavored vodka alone.


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