Is it my wifes fault I'm an alcoholic!?!
Answers: She made me stop smoking weed, so now I drink and she doesn't like that either. She doesn't say much about it but I know she's upset, Should i slow down on the sauce for her or just ignore her looks.
First off...I can't believe how rude people can be when answering questions!
Second~ yes you should stop drinking if you drink alot everyday, otherwise I don't see a problem with having a cocktail every now and then! So, you might want to slow down on the sauce and ignore her looks all at the same time...lol!
BTW~ No it's not her fault unless she drove you to drink...just kidding!
If you want to keep your wife I would listen to her she has your best interest at heart.
Don't blame other people for YOUR addictions.
Give her a good shakin', she'll settle down for you!
O.J. didn't put up with crap from his wife, neither should you!
Are you desperate for attention? You feel compelled to ask a ridiculous question like this, to make yourself feel better? Why not blame your parents for your rotten childhood too? Go get a life!
You need to stop drinking for yourself, unless, of course, you want to die a premature and very ugly death.
And the other poster was right....you can't blame others for your addiction.
Its your own fault that you are an "alcoholic". you have a dependency issue, whether its the marijuana or alcohol. you need to see someone about your dependecy issues, or you you wont have the depenedecy of your wife at your side. if you love her enough you would make an effort to better yourself.
It's not her fault you're an alcoholic. It's your own fault for not handling yourself in a better manner. I'd listen to her if I were you, because it will help save your marriage AND your health.
I would think you have issues that go way beyond your wife. You seem to have an addictive personality and if it is not one thing you are addicted to it will be another until you can get to the bottom of why you are doing it. Good luck its worth making the effort to change
No body forced you to smoke weed, and no body forced you to drink. Be a man and take responsibility for your own actions. And stop drinking for yourself, not for her. If you get your act together I am sure she will stick around.
I suppose if you were suddenly diagnosed with type 1 diabetes, that would somehow be her fault as well? And your weight gain would be all her fault. And your low blood sugar at 3 in the morning would be all her fault. Getting pulled over by the police for DUI would be all her fault. Getting fired for coming to work drunk would be all her fault. Losing all your money at the poker table would be all her fault.
See the pattern? You blame her for all your ills, when the one to blame is staring back at you from the mirror. Grow up, and take responsibility for your own actions. NO ONE can MAKE you do things. You do them of your own free will.
It's your fault you can't control yourself and want to blame everyone else.
Man, get a grip!
Don't be a puss, keep drinking if that is what will make you happy . If push comes to shove you can always check into a rehab center to stay married. But what I would do is just find someone who drinks as much as me.
Well, tell her to step her game up...If nagging got you to stop smoking...maybe more nagging will make you stop drinking...LOL
ah you just have to break through her tough exterior and find the humor in her. keep drinking and start throwing the beer cans at her head when she's not looking.
well it is your fault. A chain reaction, I've realized, is not an excuse to blame someone. No one is forcing you to drink the alcohol, it is your choice. Let her know how you feel and come to a compromise and discuss your limits
Jonathan :)