How to say no??!
How can I avoid getting drunk all the time when with my friends!. I feel peer pressure forces me to get wasted all the time!. Due to this I have missed essay deadlines and uni lectures!. Any advice would be much appreciated!.
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Answers:
It is time for some tough love Davo!.!.!.
Be a grownup and stick up for yourself!. Just say "no" and if your friends don't respect that answer, eff them they must not be your friends!.
You don't need an excuse or a special way to say it!. You need conviction and a back bone!.
Scenario 1:
Joe: Hey, Davo you want a beer!?
Davo: No thank you I've had enough for the evening!.
Joe: OK!.!.!. wimp!.
Davo: Ha ha!. I'm cool man!.
Joe: Oh, alright!.
Scenario 2:
Bill: YO! DAVO! Lets do shots!.
Davo: Sorry man!. I got a final in the morning!. What you up to tomorrow night!?
Bill: Sh#t man!. That sucks!. MORE FOR ME!Www@FoodAQ@Com
Be a grownup and stick up for yourself!. Just say "no" and if your friends don't respect that answer, eff them they must not be your friends!.
You don't need an excuse or a special way to say it!. You need conviction and a back bone!.
Scenario 1:
Joe: Hey, Davo you want a beer!?
Davo: No thank you I've had enough for the evening!.
Joe: OK!.!.!. wimp!.
Davo: Ha ha!. I'm cool man!.
Joe: Oh, alright!.
Scenario 2:
Bill: YO! DAVO! Lets do shots!.
Davo: Sorry man!. I got a final in the morning!. What you up to tomorrow night!?
Bill: Sh#t man!. That sucks!. MORE FOR ME!Www@FoodAQ@Com
You should be rbrave enough to say No, drink only a bit, if you have to act drunk, or make it look like yoru drinking alot, remember its up to you, you should never give in to peer pressure!.
Its your body, you decide what to do, if its that important stop listenning to them when they ask you to have a drink, Youve already suffered, their not sounding liek your friends, make sure they know your annoyed, youve suffered and thats untolerating, you deserve more, your better than that!.
Trust me, if their your friends, they'll understand if you simply say "No, sorry"!.
Hope this helps!Www@FoodAQ@Com
Its your body, you decide what to do, if its that important stop listenning to them when they ask you to have a drink, Youve already suffered, their not sounding liek your friends, make sure they know your annoyed, youve suffered and thats untolerating, you deserve more, your better than that!.
Trust me, if their your friends, they'll understand if you simply say "No, sorry"!.
Hope this helps!Www@FoodAQ@Com
1!. stop hanging out with those friends!. clearly they aren't your true friends if they don't just accept your decisions!.
2!. continue hanging out with those friends, but don't go to parties with them or hang out at their house all night!.
3!. tell them your parents breathilize you now (i have friends whose parents do) and then your friends will drop it!.
4!. just say no!. don't give in!. stand up for your beliefs and realize theres more to life and you should be more focused until the summer!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
2!. continue hanging out with those friends, but don't go to parties with them or hang out at their house all night!.
3!. tell them your parents breathilize you now (i have friends whose parents do) and then your friends will drop it!.
4!. just say no!. don't give in!. stand up for your beliefs and realize theres more to life and you should be more focused until the summer!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
stop hanging out with them, they're the reason why you drink anyways!. so, to eliminate the problem, stay away from your friends when they drink beer!. its simple as that!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Well, I drink and can say no!. If you can't you have a problem!. Well, time for a beer!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Don't ditch the friends! Just bring your own non-alcoholic beverage when hanging out!. As long as you have something your drinking in your hand they should leave you alone!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
And remind them, that if you get to stay sober, they ALWYS have a designated driver ;)Www@FoodAQ@Com