In desperate need of help :(?!
I'm sorry that this is going to be long but here it goes,
About 2 years the doctor told my dad he only had 6 months left to live because of how much alchol he drink!. He's lived past that but now hes drinking 2 bottles of wine a night and 7/8 cans of carling!. He will not get any help from people, Iv'e tried getting him to stop drinking so many times I have lost count, Everyone in the family have tried with all their will power!. To top that off he has between 30 to 40 fags a day!. I would like to no truthfully of how much achol is affecting of him and will it kill him :(!. Please help I have no were else to turn!.
Will very much appercicate the help :( xxxxxWww@FoodAQ@Com
About 2 years the doctor told my dad he only had 6 months left to live because of how much alchol he drink!. He's lived past that but now hes drinking 2 bottles of wine a night and 7/8 cans of carling!. He will not get any help from people, Iv'e tried getting him to stop drinking so many times I have lost count, Everyone in the family have tried with all their will power!. To top that off he has between 30 to 40 fags a day!. I would like to no truthfully of how much achol is affecting of him and will it kill him :(!. Please help I have no were else to turn!.
Will very much appercicate the help :( xxxxxWww@FoodAQ@Com
Answers:
I wish I could hug you, its hard so hard to see someone you love killing themselves slowly!. HE has to want to help himself, nothing anyone can say or do will make him stop!. What you need to do is go to Al-Anon or a support group for children of alcoholics, because this is taking its toll on you!. You will be with folks going through what you are, and you can open up, cry, have a temper tantrum and they will be there for you!. You have done all you can do, alcoholism is an illness!. It would be nice if he would go into rehab!.!.!.!.but that again is his choice, although the family can do it without his consent for at least a 72 hour evaluation!.
My heart goes out to you, I recently lost my first love to alcohol induced liver failure, broke my heart, he lost his life to the bottle!. I tried, but I know now he had to make that step to stop, there was nothing anyone could do!. I will keep you in my prayers, and just get help for you and your family!.!.!.!.so the scars wont run too deep!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
My heart goes out to you, I recently lost my first love to alcohol induced liver failure, broke my heart, he lost his life to the bottle!. I tried, but I know now he had to make that step to stop, there was nothing anyone could do!. I will keep you in my prayers, and just get help for you and your family!.!.!.!.so the scars wont run too deep!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
What was he diagnosed with that made the doctor make that statement!?
At his age, he probably won't listen to anyone and quite sadly, I've seen this scenario a few times in my life!.
Does he have a terminal sickness!?
Can you get more info!?
Ask your mom what he was diagnosed with!.
Was it sclerosis!?
Sorry, I thought he was older!.
37 is quite young!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
At his age, he probably won't listen to anyone and quite sadly, I've seen this scenario a few times in my life!.
Does he have a terminal sickness!?
Can you get more info!?
Ask your mom what he was diagnosed with!.
Was it sclerosis!?
Sorry, I thought he was older!.
37 is quite young!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
first how old are you!?Www@FoodAQ@Com
This is a sad thing, but yes it will kill him!. All that alcohol is equivelant to 1L of vodka a day!.
He has to realize that he will die from this before he can actually succeed at getting help for the alcoholism!.
My general rule of thumb is 1L of vodka per day for 10 years will kill an average male!. It sounds like this is a very serious case!. Once bruising starts he is in grave danger!. I've seen people who actually start to bruise around their liver, and kidneys!.
Sorry, maybe Al-Anon (I realize you're in the UK) can help you out!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
He has to realize that he will die from this before he can actually succeed at getting help for the alcoholism!.
My general rule of thumb is 1L of vodka per day for 10 years will kill an average male!. It sounds like this is a very serious case!. Once bruising starts he is in grave danger!. I've seen people who actually start to bruise around their liver, and kidneys!.
Sorry, maybe Al-Anon (I realize you're in the UK) can help you out!.Www@FoodAQ@Com