Was being this drunk the reason i did this?!
last night was my 18th bday, i went to a party and drank for the first time!. I had 7 shots of Bacardi Razz within 15 min!. I'm a guy, 6'2" and 140 lbs (pretty skinny)!. I ended up throwing up and passing out in a bathroom!.!.!. and from what i hear, i inappropriatly touched a girl who passed out on me before that!.
Dont give me semantic bull$hit, i know it was a bad night!. I dont care what your opinion is about drinking alchohol!
I kissed her neck and tucked her into bed!. But that was it! I hear people freaked out about it!. They locked me in a bathroom, and stole $200 from me! My question is, since I was like black out drunk for the first time ever, am i bad person for violating this girl!?!Www@FoodAQ@Com
Dont give me semantic bull$hit, i know it was a bad night!. I dont care what your opinion is about drinking alchohol!
I kissed her neck and tucked her into bed!. But that was it! I hear people freaked out about it!. They locked me in a bathroom, and stole $200 from me! My question is, since I was like black out drunk for the first time ever, am i bad person for violating this girl!?!Www@FoodAQ@Com
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dude i was there, i know for a fact you squeezed her left breast, stop lying!. and we didnt take your $200, i dont know what you did with it!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
You were wrong for doing that but actually being a bad person in general comes with more baggage than that!. You say you only did what you did, but if there were witnesses and more than one are saying they saw different then they may be right and you may not have remembered that you actually did more to her!. Not sayin your wrong or they're because I don't know I wasn't there!. If I were you though I'd chill with the alcohol for a while because you don't seem to handle it well!. I'm not sayin it because of your age but your actions!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
You were both equally guilty!.
She can't be mad because it wouldn't have happened to her if she weren't passed out drunk!.
Surely, both of you knew that something strange could happen if you got drunk!.
I wouldn't apologize, I would say we were both drunk and $hit happens!
The first time, it is forgivable, if it happens again, you already know better and will be a bad person!Www@FoodAQ@Com
She can't be mad because it wouldn't have happened to her if she weren't passed out drunk!.
Surely, both of you knew that something strange could happen if you got drunk!.
I wouldn't apologize, I would say we were both drunk and $hit happens!
The first time, it is forgivable, if it happens again, you already know better and will be a bad person!Www@FoodAQ@Com
You do not want to hear it, but thats what you get for being irresponsible and drinking that much, let alone underage!. And I am talking about your money getting stolen!. As far as you disrespectfully touching a girl, shame on you!. I hope she slaps you in the face and kicks you in the nuts!. That is also what you get for drinking so much and doing that to her!.!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
No it doesn't mean your a bad person!. I mean what u did do, IS actually a bad thing but u was very intoxicated!. You don't drink that often so it understandable how you got sooo shytfaced!. Ur tolerance to alcohol isn't high!. In time, if u are planning to keep drinking then ur tolerance level will grow, and you will have more control of things while drunk!.
Take it easy for now!.!.!.don't have to drink so much to get so drunk!. Just have a generous amount and enjoy urself!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Take it easy for now!.!.!.don't have to drink so much to get so drunk!. Just have a generous amount and enjoy urself!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
you shouldnt use being drunk as an excuse!. you chose to drink to that point of drunk and you know that people dont act like themselves when drunk!.
that said, it doesnt sound like you violated her!. that's something my friends would do!. a little peck and tucking her in sounds like a nice gesture!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
that said, it doesnt sound like you violated her!. that's something my friends would do!. a little peck and tucking her in sounds like a nice gesture!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
good people can make bad decisions, too!.
unfortunately :(
like you said, you didnt do anything bad!. and i guess you asked Y!A to get reassurance!? i would now like to tell you not to go get drunk, how stupid it is!.!.!. but you already told me not to, so i will shut up now :)
http://answers!.yahoo!.com/question/index!?!.!.!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
unfortunately :(
like you said, you didnt do anything bad!. and i guess you asked Y!A to get reassurance!? i would now like to tell you not to go get drunk, how stupid it is!.!.!. but you already told me not to, so i will shut up now :)
http://answers!.yahoo!.com/question/index!?!.!.!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
you did not violate her,i am sure she liked it if not she had not let you!. But let me tell you something your better take care about yourself not about the drinking but about sex!. be careful there are a lot of diseases out there!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
No!. Alcohol influences the mind and from that you can make decisions you know are wrong cause that "voice inside your head" isn't there to tell you what you are doing is wrong!. Thats why it's best to avoid alcohol all together!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
uh, im a chick and id be pretty pissed if you did it to me!. but if she was wasted too, she shouldve handled her drinking to keep you out of her face!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
No, If you were drunk you weren't yourself!. You aren't a "bad person" because of this, because you had no Idea what you were doing!. and it doesn't sound to me like you really violated her at all!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
you aren't a bad person, but an extremely irresponsible one!.
i'm sure the stories are much worse than what actually happened but those are what will get you into troubleWww@FoodAQ@Com
i'm sure the stories are much worse than what actually happened but those are what will get you into troubleWww@FoodAQ@Com
i dont think so cause you were both drunk, and if she wasnt then she should know when being around drunk people they do crazy things cause no one really knows what there doingWww@FoodAQ@Com
everybody makes mistakes!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Yes you are!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Not necessarily!. You didn't know what you were doing!. Just apologize and next time drink wisely!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
any time you violate someone your doing a bad thing!Www@FoodAQ@Com
NO SILLY!!! you arent a good person!.!.next time just know not to drink 7 shots within 15 minutes! I hope ur b-day was as fun as u dreamed it to be!!!Www@FoodAQ@Com
yes some people wont normally do the things they do when they are drunkWww@FoodAQ@Com
You drank for the first time and thought seven shots in fifteen minutes was a good idea!? Wow, obviously no one taught you about alcohol-- or were you just not paying attention!? Seven shots in fifteen minutes is never a good idea! That much alcohol in such a short amount of time, it's a wonder you didn't die from alcohol poisoning!. And yes, it's your fault that you inappropriately touched this girl!. You may not be a bad person, but you did a bad thing, all because you made a stupid decision about how much to drink!. Just because all you remember is kissing her neck and tucking her into bed doesn't mean that's all you did, and while alcohol might be the cause, you're to blame!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
There's two sides to this story: for one, you say you were drunk!. So it would be YOUR fault that you violated her because you were under the influence of alcohol!. However, because you said she was drunk, it's kind of her fault as well!. The only think I thinkl that makes you a bad person is the fact that you touched her while she was out cold!. If you were both awake and drunk, that's almost a different story, but the fact is this: You ARE a bad person for violating this girl while she was passed out!. Whether you were drunk or not, if you had actually done more to her she could have filed for sexual abuse!. Be more careful next time, have your friends keep an eye on you, yeah!?Www@FoodAQ@Com
Geeze, obviously no one here has been piss *** drunk!
The first time I drank I took 7 shots within a half hour (mind you I'm 110 pounds, female)!. My friends actually thought I was faking being drunk, until I puked twice!. I had no idea what I was doing, and I learned from that!.
Even though I, or even you, don't know the whole story as to what happened last night, I don't believe you're a bad person!. Did you do a bad thing last night!? Maybe!. And sorry to tell you, but if you ended up passing out in a bathroom, you probably did do more to that girl than you remember!. But it's also her fault for her being there and getting drunk to the point where she passes out!.
At the same time, part of the blame could be put on your friends!. Since the first time you ever drank was on your 18th birthday, I'm assuming that your friends pressured you into drinking!. If they knew it was your first time drinking, they should have helped you be more responsible while drinking and not get you so drunk to the point where you're going to pass out!. Seriously, it's a miracle you didn't die of alcohol poisoning!.
Bottom line, you're not a bad person!. I hope you learned your lesson and figured out your limit when you drink!. Just learn from this and it won't happen again!. I hope!. :)Www@FoodAQ@Com
The first time I drank I took 7 shots within a half hour (mind you I'm 110 pounds, female)!. My friends actually thought I was faking being drunk, until I puked twice!. I had no idea what I was doing, and I learned from that!.
Even though I, or even you, don't know the whole story as to what happened last night, I don't believe you're a bad person!. Did you do a bad thing last night!? Maybe!. And sorry to tell you, but if you ended up passing out in a bathroom, you probably did do more to that girl than you remember!. But it's also her fault for her being there and getting drunk to the point where she passes out!.
At the same time, part of the blame could be put on your friends!. Since the first time you ever drank was on your 18th birthday, I'm assuming that your friends pressured you into drinking!. If they knew it was your first time drinking, they should have helped you be more responsible while drinking and not get you so drunk to the point where you're going to pass out!. Seriously, it's a miracle you didn't die of alcohol poisoning!.
Bottom line, you're not a bad person!. I hope you learned your lesson and figured out your limit when you drink!. Just learn from this and it won't happen again!. I hope!. :)Www@FoodAQ@Com
maybe apologize to her if you can and explain that you werent really all there!. perhaps go a little slower with the alcohol and learn the point you must not pass!. No one wants to babysitWww@FoodAQ@Com