Do you tell the bar steward, "gimme a drink", or do you ask nicely?!


Question: Do you tell the bar steward, "gimme a drink", or do you ask nicely!?
Do you bang it on the bar (your empty glass), or do you politely just stay quite untill he notices that you are empty!?

Are you a banger, or a mouse!? AND, does the 4 people after you get served first!?Www@FoodAQ@Com


Answers:
I work in a bar and I take great pleasure in the phrase "the management reserves the right to refuse service for any reason"!. We don't have to serve people and there's no obligation at all to serve in the right order - facts that I remember whenever I'm out waiting for drinks on the other end!

Personally, my tactic for getting noticed is to wait for the bartender to finish serving someone, then lean forward and smile at them!. Sometimes they'll ask "who's next", but if they're any good, they'll have a rough idea of what order people arrived in!. It also helps to wait near the tills, or stand next to someone you know is about to be served!. Pointing out someone who was there before you is a sure way of becoming the next in line too!Www@FoodAQ@Com

DO NOT YELL at the bartender!. DO NOT SNAP at the bartender!. DO NOT SAY "HEY YOU" or "GIMME A DRINK" to the bartender!. DO NOT TAP THE BAR!.

All of these things will get you pushed further back in the line for a drink!.

If you are not a regular, or do not know the bartender personally; The Best, Easiest, and FASTEST way to get a drink is to hold out some money!. The bartender will see it, and will be over to you as soon as he/she can!. Trust me!.

also please know what you want to order if you flash money like this!.

If you flash a $20 or hold a few bills visibly in your hand over the bar and sit patiently I will come to you first, Always!. Unless of course my regulars or friends are in the bar!.!.!.but then I'm coming to you next!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

I'm always polite and try and make chit chat it normally gets you a fair way with the staff
i was a bartender in London and sore both sides of it often we would get customers from the USA who where rude and often customer rudeness=bad service or no service tapping coins or glasses on bar or whistling will get you nowhere fast
often if your know to the staff and liked they will be offering or pouring your next drink before you ask
most peoples favorite subject are themselves so next time your in a bar ask a polite question about themselves to your server and see how far you will getWww@FoodAQ@Com

demanding something from someone who can give a light pour and still charge the same does nothing but lighten your pockets!.

I'm always polite, but I don't wait for him to notice I'm empty!. I simply say, "Hey, when you get a moment, I'd love a refill!. Thanks" and smile!. Tipping helps, too!.

They usually remember me and hop to it when they see me coming, because I treat them well!. They respond in kind!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

Insistent but polite, that's me!. Bang the glass to get noticed, then ask very politely for a refill!.

Always be nice to people that prepare your food, you never know what they have a chance to do if you're a jerk!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

Guess I'm somewhere in-between, I hold my glass up toward the bartender and put my money on the bar for them to take!. Not a mouse or a banger!.!.!.!.just a considerate patron (who used to be a bartender)Www@FoodAQ@Com

Tell you what, knowing a few barkeeps people like you get shoddy service and light pours!. A barkeep knows your glass is empty if they're any good at their job, if you have to ask, find a better bar!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

what are you doing getting your own drinks, send the little lady to the bar, that's why we have girlfriends, and no, put your money away, she's paying!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

ask the barperson thier name if its busy shout hey there whats you name (smiling) then when you want a drink say hey ron (or whatever) id really like a drink get me a ( name your tipple) thats the wayWww@FoodAQ@Com

they pass me in the bar!.!. get attention by saying "hey can i get a __________"

im not rude!.!. but if i want a drink i will get one!.!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

i ask nicely, as i work in a bar and hate it myself when people act ignorent!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

NOPE , you reach up smack them and take it! LOL
of course you ask nicely or the 40 people after you will get served!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

I'm a lady - therefore I NEVER band on the counter!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

When you're ready please, and always make eye contact!.Www@FoodAQ@Com





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