Can i stop being angry about by boyfriend being an alcoholic?!
He keeps telling me he can't remember the things he did to me when he was drunk and that he can't feel guilty about it!. But I'm still bitter and angry about it and his current "I can't feel right now" attitude!. When is it my turn to express my feelings!? He never wants to hear what I have to say and says that i'm giving him anxiety and making him want to drink again!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
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hes full of ****, he does remember some of it, and he doesnt want to hear it cause he is a moron!!! lady get out of there he will never change and obviously does not want too or he would listen to you and think about what he is doing to himself you and your relationship,, also you will be angry and wont stop being angry at him,Www@FoodAQ@Com
It sounds like your bf needs to get a clue maybe you should leave him and find someone cares about your feelings and needs!. and if he's hurting you then he's a loser and you should definitly leave him!. drunk or not you know what your doing and he's using not remembering it as an excuse!. believe me i know from experience!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
He's full of crap!. Alcoholics say things to make themselves feel better about drinking!. He will do something (unconsciously/on purpose) to make you mad!. Then use it as an excuse to drink, because he can tell himself that you are a such-and-such!. He can tell himself that anyone in his situation would drink!. He's full of crap!. You can't fix him!. You have to fix you!.
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Straight up he's in Denial and playin you! If you really want some answers for trying to cope with an alcoholic try Al-anon!. As far as him not remembering the things he does he could be telling you the truth!. That's called a blackout!. some of us drunks really have them but also will use that excuse cuz we can't really excuse our behavior!. Anyway Good Luck!!Www@FoodAQ@Com
Been there before!.!.!.it's called being in a codependent relationship!.!.!.you're being an enabler!.!.!.google ALCONON (might be wrong letters) but basically it's like AA for people living with alcoholics!.!.!.Good LuckWww@FoodAQ@Com
sounds like you need to stop being so needy!.!.!. have a beer
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RUN AWAY FAST!.!.!.being in a relationship with an alcoholic is VERY BAD>!.!.!.!.!.things will never change ! they will always get WORSE!!Www@FoodAQ@Com
you have all the rights to be angry Www@FoodAQ@Com
