Under age drinking at 14?!
so i stole a bottle from the store with some friends and my mom caught me drunk (not knowing that i stole it) and now shes pissed at me what can i do to gain her trust and be her friend again!? and im turning 14 on the 20thWww@FoodAQ@Com
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It will take time, you disappointed her!. We Moms have this thing about wanting the best for our kids and when you guys screw up it hurts us!. Yeah we have feelings!. Just hang in there and be a good kid, your Mom loves you, things will get better!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
1) DON'T DRINK UNDERAGE! THERE IS A REASON WHY THE AGE IS WHAT IT IS! (Even if you don't understand why, this has to do mostly with neurological development of the frontal cortex **FYI: the location of the brain which develops last and develops common sense/RATIONAL thinking in humans)
2) Don't steal, yes!.!.!. it's bad enough your drinking underage, throw in a theft charge and you'll be in jail or juvie in no time!. (Hope they don't have a camera or see you taking the stuff)
3) THINK BEFORE YOU ACT! So many people don't seem to think of the consequences, honestly!.!.!. if you shouldn't be doing it!.!. don't do it!. If you don't understand why, ask or research it!. Things are the way the are for a reason!.
4) Talk to her, get help if you need to!. Alcoholism is not a good path to go down, especially since you started drinking so early (and getting drunk)!. Apologise, ect!. It won't be easy or comfortable to do!.!. but you need to talk it out!.
5) DO NOT PICK UP SMOKING! I know you haven't mentioned it!.!. but it stuff like this normally follows suit, DO NOT START!Www@FoodAQ@Com
2) Don't steal, yes!.!.!. it's bad enough your drinking underage, throw in a theft charge and you'll be in jail or juvie in no time!. (Hope they don't have a camera or see you taking the stuff)
3) THINK BEFORE YOU ACT! So many people don't seem to think of the consequences, honestly!.!.!. if you shouldn't be doing it!.!. don't do it!. If you don't understand why, ask or research it!. Things are the way the are for a reason!.
4) Talk to her, get help if you need to!. Alcoholism is not a good path to go down, especially since you started drinking so early (and getting drunk)!. Apologise, ect!. It won't be easy or comfortable to do!.!. but you need to talk it out!.
5) DO NOT PICK UP SMOKING! I know you haven't mentioned it!.!. but it stuff like this normally follows suit, DO NOT START!Www@FoodAQ@Com
Wow!.!.!. Youre probably going to be in jail by the time youre 17 so i dont think you need to worry about it!. I bet youre emo!.
But to answer your question, by really nice to her, do w/e she says, dont do it at all for a long time and when you start again be smarter about it!. Dont stealt it from a store!. And by "a long time" i mean till youre like 17 at least!.!.!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
But to answer your question, by really nice to her, do w/e she says, dont do it at all for a long time and when you start again be smarter about it!. Dont stealt it from a store!. And by "a long time" i mean till youre like 17 at least!.!.!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
well maybe you could cook her dinner or some thing to show her how much you care or you could do great in school so she knows how hard your trying to gain her trust also just write her a simple note explaining what happened and how much you love her and leave it for her in the morning Www@FoodAQ@Com
Don't drink or steal again and hope that nobody saw you steal and that your friends didn't get caught, because if she hears that you stole, you're looking at years before she trusts you!. Www@FoodAQ@Com
Wow!.!.!. stuuupid!. Do you know how much kids can get in trouble by stealing liquor from the store!? I don't know, but I wouldn't trust you after you'd done that!. I'm sorry!. Www@FoodAQ@Com
just don't go out the next couple of weekends, help out around the house a lot and get good gradesWww@FoodAQ@Com
get her drunk!!!!Www@FoodAQ@Com
don't let her catch you drinking againWww@FoodAQ@Com