Am I over-thinking this?!
I am making new friends right now!. One of them, I've hung out with on two or three previous occasions!. We'll watch movies at each others' houses and I always bring over some beer!. However, she never drinks any and I always feel bad that I'm the only one drinking!. I know she drinks because she's always telling me stories of going out and drinking!. I don't like to go out, so I just drink at home once a week!. I don't ever drink to excess (especially if I'm driving), but I like to have a few beers on my night off (which is when we hang out)!. Since she never drinks with me, I feel awkward about doing this!. Am I over-thinking this!? Tomorrow we're hanging out at my house and I've decided not to drink, but I'm just wondering if I'm making a big deal out of nothing!.
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I'm asking this here because I wasn't getting any responses in the etiquette section!. I thought maybe you guys could help me!. Www@FoodAQ@Com
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I'm asking this here because I wasn't getting any responses in the etiquette section!. I thought maybe you guys could help me!. Www@FoodAQ@Com
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You are over-thinking this!. If you are curious, why not just ask her!? If she elects not to, then so be it!. It doesn't mean you don't have to!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Maybe she doesn't like beer!. I don't!. I love to drink, but if there's only beer i don't drink!. ask her what she likes to drink before she comes over and then you know so when shes there you can offer her what she does like!. i hope that helps and if she doesnt want to drink then dont feel bad about drinking in front of her its your house and your night offWww@FoodAQ@Com
I wouldn't think too much into this!. If you always bring beer and she doesn't drink maybe she doesn't like beer!. I used to be this way!. Or maybe she has a low tolerancy!. either way I wouldn't worry too much, if it bothered her she'd more than likely tell you!. You should try asking her why she doesn't drink with you!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
She probably doesnt want to embaress herself when around a new friend!. Easiest thing to do would be going out to a bar!. Or maybe you have a bad taste in drinks!?Www@FoodAQ@Com
If it does concern you just don't drink on every occasion you get together!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
yeah, you pretty much are over-thinking things!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
Tell this story to your friend not to us and see what she says it can be many reasons why she doesn't want to drinkWww@FoodAQ@Com