Alcoholic mom stress?!
ok im 15 years old and an alcoholic mother!.
i cannot stand it it has really ruined our relationshipso much! all we ever do is fight and it hurts so much even if i dont talk to her that day she always finds a way to fight w/ me and then i get frustrated and fight!.
i tried telling her how i feel about how she drinks and she couldnt give a ****!. b/c she likes to drink and will never stop!. shes a stay at home mom !. w/ sjut me !. and one day she drinks and another hangover then drink!. hangover!. drink!. hangover ect!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
it gets soo stressing and she wont go and get help my grandmother is 80 something and is getting sick of this too !. my dad is a very big push over and defends my mom in any way shape or form and even if she said that the sky is green and ducks moo he would defend her and agree! its so ******* irritating!!
is thier ANYTHING!? anything i can do to help and no i cant just let it happen it hurts me way to much! Www@FoodAQ@Com
i cannot stand it it has really ruined our relationshipso much! all we ever do is fight and it hurts so much even if i dont talk to her that day she always finds a way to fight w/ me and then i get frustrated and fight!.
i tried telling her how i feel about how she drinks and she couldnt give a ****!. b/c she likes to drink and will never stop!. shes a stay at home mom !. w/ sjut me !. and one day she drinks and another hangover then drink!. hangover!. drink!. hangover ect!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
it gets soo stressing and she wont go and get help my grandmother is 80 something and is getting sick of this too !. my dad is a very big push over and defends my mom in any way shape or form and even if she said that the sky is green and ducks moo he would defend her and agree! its so ******* irritating!!
is thier ANYTHING!? anything i can do to help and no i cant just let it happen it hurts me way to much! Www@FoodAQ@Com
Answers:
Always know that within 3 years from now, you can leave the situation!. She may be irritating but don't let it get to you!. Know that she has made mistakes in her life that lead her to where she is and that you're above it!. You need to tell your dad that you aren't just some other person living in the house, you are his DAUGHTER and what your mom is doing is effecting you!. It's his responsibility to give you a proper home, regardless of how he feels about your mother!. She is putting you in a bad domestic situation and you need his help to stop it!. also, get your grandmother involved!. If he won't do anything, try to get her to put pressure on him and tell her that you are suffering from your mother's problem!. Www@FoodAQ@Com
get her to AA or into treatment some how!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
You got it rough kid!. I was once in your shoes!. Now I am a mother!. The only things you can do is an intervention with friends and family!. Of course your dad won't be any help!. So you will have to get with your grand mother to pull it off!.
But until she admits she has a problem there really isn't much you can do!.
My parents were divorced so each time it got really bad with my mother I went to live with the other!.
Hope this helps and Good luck!. Do your best not to end up like her when your grown!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
But until she admits she has a problem there really isn't much you can do!.
My parents were divorced so each time it got really bad with my mother I went to live with the other!.
Hope this helps and Good luck!. Do your best not to end up like her when your grown!.Www@FoodAQ@Com
