13.Drinks.Smokes.Help?!
So I started going to bars and stuff with some friends (yea, i'm 13, i go to bars, but i'm like 160 cm., doesnt really matter, but just some extra info) well, since we grew up in an environment surrounded by partying, weeds, drugs, and you get the picture. We go to bars and we drink, and I mean alot, sometimes I get bad hangovers the next day.
Then about 3 months later, my parents weren't home for a week, so I stayed at a my ''friend'' 's house, and she just turned 18 and she told me to try smoking and if I dont try she's gonna kick me out of her house, so I tried and I tried, and I got used to it. It's not really considered an addiction because I don't do it that often.
Then about a month later we went to phi phi island, and in the yacht, there were other people and well, we were smoking and drinking in our rooms. When we got to the island, i started drinking and all, and we started dancing to songs, and that's all I remembered, i woke up the next morning on the ground and I asked my friend what happened, they said I passed out while dancing, and we were just laughing about it.
So, what do you have to say about that? any advice? well I be one of those people who has no work and just sit down at home watching tv when I grow up?
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If you have to ask about your behaviour you must realise that it is not good. Only you can make a difference. Think about your health, hopefully your body will need to last you a long time! You can enjoy a social drink in moderation when you are older, but drinking until you pass out is dangerous in all kinds of ways. Smoking will kill you and also make you smell revolting. Stop trying to put the blame on "friends". Firstly no real friend would try to make you smoke. You are mixing with the wrong people. study at school and work at things that will increase your self esteem. Ignore the "bars and stuff." get a real life.
Yes if you end up doing this **** at such a young age, that strip where theres like 20 bars every kilometer, well thats probably going to be ur new job location in a couple of years after your parents have thrown you out and you'll either be selling urself on the streets to get your daily fix or you'll be dancing in a strip bar serving perverted fat assed american tourists with sex.
Its your call :)
