20year old so confused :S?!

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You are having nagging doubts because all the things you think you will regret, you WILL regret. It it won't be the bullsh*t wussy regrets of "oh, I miss her", and "oh, I think I loved her", it will be REAL regret, like, "I pissed my f*ckin' life away and now I'm totally screwed until I die".

Women are a dime a dozen, mate, and they will always be around. Rumor is they're making more of them every day. You are seriously running out of time before all your choices are made, and then you are f*cked for good.

I know, believe me. One day I was standin' on the corner, wondering what I wanted to do that day, when all of a sudden life jumps me from behind, beats me into conscription on the good ship S.S. Adulthood, and has been on my back, buggering me from behind every day of my life since. I blame women for a big part of that, the whole bloody lot of them.

Live your life, see the freakin' Taj Mahal, screw like a tomcat, sleep on a pile of pizza boxes for a decade or two and love every second of it, you'll never sleep better in your life.

When your ready to give up on life, if it ain't this girl it'll be another, there's no need to go down without swingin'. It's your life, you are allowed to be selfish about this particular subject.

Good luck, hope you do the right thing.

Edit: Keep on the track you're headed, boyo, and you'll turn out like Ducki15. If that don't put a bullet into the heart of your dreams, then I can't help you. You could double date and play canasta under the car port when the weather breaks.

FWIW, I happen to know Ducki15's chickee dances the nasty boogie with strangers in the bus station men's room every tuesday. Make it a stop on your grand tour of life, and bring a camera, so you'll have something to remember her by in your old age.

You should sit down with her and tell her these things. Mabey not the part about sleeping around, if you really love your girlfriend then that shouldnt be an issue. But just to let her know whats going on. I know if my boyfriend (of three years) sat me down and told me this i would totally understand. It might also be time to take a break from one another, she should realize that you need your space and "guy time" every now and then.
Hope this helps :)

u know, life isnt about partying its about enjoying life with the people u love. u could leave ure gf and do these things, but think about it. would u really rather leave the one u love to be a bone head? ure going to regret it and u cant go back to her just because u miss her. chances r she wouldnt take u back. plz make wise decisions

God bless u

U would regret a lot of 1 night stands and being drunk a lot when ur older cause of ur STD, make ask her for a couple of weekends to go out and party but not like get hookers and sht, and after 3 years I'd say ask her to marry u!

If you love her stick with her, you will never regret love if you guys end up being happily together the rest of your lives.

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Well I don't think it was good to lose touch with you friends in the first place, its rude if you ask me to put your friends aside, but if you are nervous about it becoming too serious I would call it off it will hurt a lot ....but I regret not having enough time in my youth I am only 25 and thought my life would be a little different then it is now :) Just play it safe don't do things you will regret you may have kids someday and it will change your opinion on a lot of what you did and don't want them to do ... Maybe its a good time for you both to put your future in to perspective and if your paths end up back at eachother in a few years or so great if not thats okay too Hope this helps and good luck!!

I'm 21 and also in a committed relationship. I went through these same things when I noticed how fast things seemed to have gone. I think there is no answer for you, you just need to ask yourself some serious questions and focus on whats most important when you answer. For instance do you really think you'll regret at an older age that you didn't get into enough trouble, whore yourself out enough, or get drunk and lost at enough places? I mean is it really important to abuse yourself just to make sure you're happier about having done something with your youth? Ask your girlfriend to Travel with you. Find ways to make it happen and make things exciting for your relationship (if that's what's important). My fiancee and I do so many things still and I don't regret my life so far at all. We go on vacations and go to concerts and take road trips for no reason. It's fun believe me. And you get to experience so much with somebody that, if things last, you'll be able to really look back and remember it. BUT... It is important you have friends. Talk to her about it I'm sure it's not that she minds you having friends it's just that she wants to spend time with you. So start making friends with couples. She'll get girlfriends out of that and you'll get guy friends then you just make guy's days and have her make girl's days so it's fair. If she's important to you and you feel like she's worth all this time and that you guys have a future together then there's no reason to worry about being with other people. If you feel like partying party but don't over do it because it's just unhealthy anyway but like I said before have her go with you until you guys have found a sense of your own ways to have fun separately which is healthy. So in the end you just need to find a healthy balance between your age and your serious commitments. You sound like you need to have a good long conversation with her about how you feel about both how you think she's affected your friendships and how you feel you're still young and want to live a little. I'm sure she wants some of the same things this is where compromise comes into play. Figure out ways it makes you both feel comfortable for you to "live a little" and her to do the same. I hope this helps. Sorry it's so long.

My own issues with growing up and being in a committed, long term relationship.

Laddie, she's got yer balls for a bow tie, can't you see it man? Death will be welcome, but a long time comin'.

Reading the answers here, most pups must like life on a short leash, lol. Just remember, the little dogs stay on the porch, while the big dogs are off the f*cking chain.

Anyway thinkin' is thirsty work, march your pints into quarts and see what tomorrow brings. Maybe she'll be givin' you the boot, if you come in with the milkman and out with the cat.

I'm thinking passive aggressive is your color, cause it's darn nice when you set it up and it plays itself out on its own without you having to do the hard work.