Would you date someone that smokes (if you don't smoke yourself)?!


Question: Would you date someone that smokes (if you don't smoke yourself)?
I recently met this girl. She just got hired (about 2 months ago) at this little cafe/coffee shop thing that I have gone to for the past 7 years or since high school. She is really nice and seems to go out of her way to talk to me or wave, basically acknowledge that she knows I'm there. I have come to really like her, at first I thought she was just trying to be nice to the customers. Not that shes not nice to them but she shows more emotion towards me than them. Now comes the thing I ask about, I don't smoke nor have I ever dated anyone who did/does smoke. I thought about this and figured one minor thing like that shouldn't determine my feelings for her. How do you feel about someone smoking and would you let it keep you from possibly entering into one of your best relationships?
Just curious, thanks for your answers.

Answers:

Personally, I stay away from it. It seems like a minor thing, but it really isn't. It's a gross habit, and whenever she smokes she's hurting herself AND you!
*However, if it bothers you but you're still able to look past it, you shouldn't throw away something that could be pretty great. If you can look past her smoking habit, then you must like her a lot.
Smoking may be disgusting, but it's your FEELINGS, not her habits, that should determine how you feel about her.



I literally can't, the chemicals affect me too much, and cigarette smoke smell and taste is disgusting. Plus, the way a smoker tends to think and act is different from a non-smoker, especially in relation to respect for the environment, and that bleeds into other things. It just does. Do you really want to get into that?

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It'll be hard for you to kiss her if you don't smoke but I don't see why you wouldn't start dating her. Who knows what it could lead to ? Awesome relationship? Healthier lifestyle choices for her




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