Anyone!!!! drunk!?!
Anyone!!!! drunk!?
Okay i went to this party with some of my friends.and this guy comes up to me and gives me a DRINK AND i thought he was REALLY hot!!! And then i got drunk and then he took advange of me what should i do tell someone or not
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Even after the fact you said he was really hot, admit it you wanted him, you had him, then he blew you off, and now you feel guilty, maybe even slutty, you don't like the feeling, and want to blame him for your indiscretion. I 'm sorry for sounding harsh but eventually you have to take responsibility for your own actions. Your troubles can always be blamed on someone, and that someone is you. Admit that you are the only one that is responsible for your actions. It can be quite liberating.
You need to tell someone. Not sure how far he took it. But get the word out!!
Definitely tell someone, friend family member just because you got drunk, that doesn't mean it was your fault or his right. I had a girlfriend that this happened to and she never told anyone for like 5 years and it ate her up inside.
PUT HIM BEHIND BARS
You wanna tell someone...why ? to complain? to share ? to brag ?...no one takes advantage...most of us are not chess grand masters and don't plan 3 steps ahead. generally things just happen as we choose (mostly by instinctive reaction at the unfolding circumstances)...don't have to make an issue. if u liked it, do it again. if u didn't like it, don't do it again (be more circumspect). Enjoy tje high, but dont let it be areason for your fall.
Before I answer this question, I need more information.
Just because you were drunk doesn't mean the guy took advantage of you. Many, many women get drunk and sleep with guys.
So did you tell him NO and he still kept going, thats called rape. Did he force you? If he did, Now you do report him if rape was involved. Rape is saying NO and he forces himself on you.
Yes tell people if you did't want that to happen to you.