I got out to the bar to be alone, he goes to mingle?!

I got out to the bar to be alone, he goes to mingle?

Seriously, he goes and mingles with men and women, I go and sit by a wall and have nice chats with my girlfriend who is the bartender (we joke about my love for the wall and how nice and quiet it is, such GOOD company walls can be, you know?
now I say, if he can go out and not be bugged by me while having his fun, then why cant I go out and expect the same from him?
(and yes men will try to pick up on me but I just flash them my wedding band and that ends that, he doesnt wear his.)
thanks

I don't know quite what you're trying to say. I act exactly like that myself. I thought that was normal behavior. Are you and my four ex-wives trying to tell me something?