Help me pleasee?!
Answers: ... these popular kids in school were drinking and brought me along, now people are saying im drinking and im scared of getting in trouble, any advice?
all rumors eventually die down. Just keep denying it, loudly, and try to remember when the next big gossip hits, your tale will simmer down. The best thing you can do is to let your actions speak as loud as your words. Don't hang out with the crowd that got you into trouble anymore
If you are worried about your parents finding out, you will have to cross that bridge when you get there. The only thing to do there is to be honest and tell them that you got yourself into a bad situation and although you didn't participate, you felt a lot of peer pressure to stay with the popular kids, and you are now regretting that decision, because of all the untrue rumors crapping up your life.
Ask them if there is any way that you all can come up with a plan that if you find yourself in another "gray area" situation that you could call and get yourself out of it. ( I have a "code" telephone ring/ txt msg with my son so I know to call his cell / txt him to tell him he has to come home right away, etc.)
It isn't really standing up to his friends, and saves him face, but his safety and him having the judgment to get out of a situation is the most important thing right now. When he is older, I am sure he will take it up a notch to out and out saying something is a bad idea and leaving on his own. (Probably when he has his own car.)
Good luck, try to remember High School is not forever and what you are going through will blow over soon enough. Just keep denying the rumors and don't act guilty, change your friends... it's better to be less popular and stay out of trouble than to be in all that drama all the time.
Just be honest
tell and prove the right thing. never lie. or be honest
don't worry about it. as long as you know that you're not doing anything wrong then it's all right. unless you're trying to impress someone then i should say don't hang out with those popular guy anymore if the person you're trying to impress doesn't like it.
hmmm better hang out with friends you know is not of bad influence to you...YOU know the difference between right and wrong...so hanging out with those kids you know the consequences...........
stay out of trouble by simply avoiding them....
have a happy life....
Enjoy the brews you are having while you are having them.
You were not drinking so don't worry about it, Who cares what people say or think, Tell those people to get a life, You'll be fine, Trust me....