How can i help a friend to stop drinking beer. she,s an alcaholic.?!
Answers: she,s only 41 years old.
I am a alcoholics and i feel for this lady, only she herself has to give it all to stop, I lost my home the love of my children and thanks to the great love and support of my mate I would probably be living on the st. I know that no matter what a person says she will stop or give it a try, only when she is ready. God has given man so many chances, that I am sure He will help,all she has to do is ask.
No matter what the reason is for her to drink; it is not fixing anything. It's only making things worse. She may have a problem that she thinks can't be fixed.
Nothing is so bad that drinking can help.
I know it sounds sad, but you can't help her, untill she realises herself that she must stop and she needs help!!
You won't be able to stop her! You can try and help her realise she has a problem and seek advise. But she, herself, needs the motivation to stop drinking.
more or less it is a self realisation until the individual hit the rock difficult to come back
take her to AA
You can do nothing; AA can do it all. Take her (go with her or she won't go at all) to an AA meeting and they will take it from there. You can go to an Al Anon meeting on your own to learn more about alcoholics.
have her go to alanon or alateen it is part of the AA program she needs to quit on her time not because you wont her to