Worried is she an alcoholic?!
Answers: i am worried about my mum, she is always drinking alcohol, she will get in from work at 3:30 ish an will start drinking then she will often have a bottle of wine or more a night and it seems when she starts drinking she cant stop. if we go shopping she always wants to go to the pub for dinner and has to have a drink, ive told her i am worried about her and that i think she has a problem but she just tells me to shut up and because she doesnt drink in a morning she doesnt have a problem, but its getting too much and i dont know how much more i can take i want to leave home but im scared if i do she will drink more and more because im not here. last year we went on holiday in april and july she brought back 5 litres of booze (vodka,brandy,whisky) and then i went away in august with my bf and we brought her 3 litres of whisky (supposed to be for xmas) but by november she had drunk the lot, i also know she had bought spirits inbetween and hides the empty bottles under her bed please help
hiding booze whether full or empty bottles is not the actions of a normal drinking pattern,it is a sure sign that the person doing soknows inside themselves that they have a problem. the thing is getting them to admit it.consuming alcohol to this extent is lethal,please make no mistake about it.i write from personal experience not some medical textbook.i would strongly suggest you try asking your mum to contact alcoholics anonymous on the national helpline number 0845 7697555. we are not weirdos, just ordinary people like your mum who,often without realising it,found ourselves utterly addicted to alcohol,the help is out there,first step is to get your mum to make that call - remember, we are anonymous and hold that principle very dear to us so your mum has nothing to lose and a hell of a lot to gain by making that call,her life back for one thing,i wish you luck,it is the only way that works,believe me ,ive been there too.
Hiding constitues acknowledgement that there is a problem. Try an intervention with the rest of your family. Good luck to you!
stop kidding your self!! she is a alcoholic!! get her help NOW! who gave me a thumbs down????? you dont know a f****N thing about the pain and disease that is alcoholism!! what was wrong with what i said??? she needs help and now"!! so f**k off and stick to the easy questions you might understand!!
alcoholic.
To make her see that she has a problem I would make a bet with her that she couldn't stop drinking for a week.
If see says no then assume she is an alcoholic.
If she agrees then watch for any hesitation and watch her carefully for a week.
It sounds like a problem and if she's hiding bottles then she knows it is.
You should talk to some one but your mum is the only person who can do anything about it.
All you can do is be there to support her and it sounds like you are a lovely, caring, sensitive person, she is lucky to have you.
She is probably an alcoholic. My mom was also one. Here is what you need to do. You need to talk to her. If she doesn't listen, have someone else help you. She will never get help until she can admit to having a problem. One day it will catch up to her. All you need to do is pray that she will stop. Tell her you are worried about her, and that you really wished she'd stop drinking so much because you do not like the way she is changing. Also, maybe speak to an adult you trust and ask them for their opinion. Good luck dear.
Call a local help line, most places have them, and ask if they have any meetings and such. Then try to get the rest of your family to talk to your mum with you, explain to her that you are all worried. That you love her and that's why you all want to help her. Then tell her about the meetings and ask her to go to them. I will say that sadly until she admits to herself that she has a problem and wants to change it that it is going to be nearly useless trying to talk to her. Alcoholism is a tough bird to kill and she has to want to get better before it will work.
It's possible that she might have a problem, if she drinks like that regularly. What you need to do when someone you love is an alcoholic is find yourself a support group such as Al-Anon and learn to not make her problem your problem, sounds cold, but it's the only way you can continue to live your life without focusing on her all the time.
Good luck to you.
hate to say it but mum's a lush unfortunately you can not make her stop, she needs to see it for herself either an accident or something health wise cold also try an intervention
sorry but only she can answer that no one else can but it does look like she mite have a problem but until she can admit it it means nothing what others think good luck
As a recovering Alcoholic the bottles you brought back would only lasted a few days. If she starts isolating behind closed curtains and stays in bed all day,and stops eating then there is a problem.
If you look at suggested consumption of safe units in a week,
nearlly everyone has a problem.
you are right to be worried, but unless she is willing to stop, there is not much you can do. check out alanon meetings, to get support for yourself. AA, rehab, etc. only works if the person has an honest desire to quit. talk to her about your concern, when she is sober, ask if she would be willing to check out an AA meeting. all she has to do, is sit & listen. she will most likely get mad at you, deny or justify her drinking, and avoid you. i've been sponsoring alcoholics that want to quit for 10 years now, yet i am powerless to help my own mom, who has been drinking for almost 40 years, because she doesn't feel, her drinking is a problem, she enjoys it & doesn't want to stop.