Why would a man want to stay with an Alcholic woman?!

Question: Why would a man want to stay with an Alcholic woman!?
that can most likely hardly take care of herself, is probably an emotional wreck!. A woman who caused him to be adulturous!. When he had a woman who loved him dearly and unconditionally, is independent, responsible and very spiritual!. Tried to love him with all her heart and soul!. The woman is probably going to cause him contentions, strife the rest of his life!. We know for sure God isn't to happy with the conditions!. Why would somebody choose an alcholic over someone who is stable!. Hate to say it she isn't even pretty!.!.!.!. Maybe he needs a woman that's severly insecure to help him be secure!. Instead of a woman that just loves himWww@FoodAQ@Com

I think you answered your question yourself!. He probably does need an insecure woman to make him feel better!. Not necessarily feel better, but maybe he needs someone to take care of, someone who needs him and makes him feel useful, per se!. Does that make sense to you!? If he's too blind to see the love you have for him, then you don't deserve him!. God gave him this woman for a reason, He'll give you your chance too!. Www@FoodAQ@Com

Maybe because the woman who date a man already in a relationship realizes that if he gets in a relationship with this woman he knows she will simply get a new boy toy before he's done with her!?

Maybe because she's self-centered and judgemental!?

Maybe she is too confident and comes off as demanding; he fears losing his independence!.

FWIW, I'm assuming this non-alcoholic woman is you!.


Maybe he doesn't have a reason!.

If someone were to ask me why I was staying with an alcoholic woman (if I even was, that is) I would say, "I don't fuc*ing know!."

You don't always have to have a reason, you know!. Sometimes things have no reason or explanation!.

Or perhaps it's good memories!. Or the fact that he might feel somehow responsible for her!.

"And do you take thee!.!.!.in sickness and in health!.!.!.till death do us part!?" You know how it goes!.


Maybe she has children that he deeply adores!. Maybe they have mutual children!. My stepdad put up with my alcoholic mother for years before he was murdered!. He stuck around just for me and i wasn't even his own!. Biologically anyway!. Www@FoodAQ@Com

Sometimes us guys think we can fix everything, so we go toward what is broken instead of what is right!. We're idiots much of the time!. Just pray for him, maybe he'll come around!. Www@FoodAQ@Com

The same reason my recent ex decided to break up with me due to religious differences and pursue Mephistopheles!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

well sad to say that is his choice!. you might feel as though that she is not right for him, but that is his choice! he has his reasons why he love her it might not be a good reason such as being a drunk but you cant make someone fall in love with you,they should love you just for being you, and not because you feel like you are a more qualified person as a being!. he proberly love her like in the nautural before she starts to consume alcohol but whatever the reason is for him loving her only he can say!. now im not saying that he is right, but its really the individual!.you know what your standards are in a mate, and i guess he doesn't have any!Www@FoodAQ@Com

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