Taking advantage of a drunk girl? (or a drunk guy)?!


Question: Taking advantage of a drunk girl!? (or a drunk guy)!?
I was talking to a friend of mine (who's also a girl)
And we kinda got in a bit of an argument about this topic!.
She's a VERY feminist girl, and I'm the total opposite!.

To me, it's the girls fault for getting drunk!.
She's the one who chose to drink, she's the one who
chose to get drunk, and she's the one who decided to
have sex with a guy!.
(if she was passed out at the time, then that's totally rape!.
but I'm just talking about being drunk)

Yes her thinking is a little off at the time, and that effects
her decision making, But the guy thats sleeping with her
didn't make her drink, didn't make her get drunk, didn't
make her decide to have sex!.
She chose to put her self in that situation by letting herslef
get to that point by drinking!.

so my question is, whats your opinion on this!?Www@FoodAQ@Com


Answers:
So , I guess you are saying if you choose to go out late one night by yourself and get raped , It's your fault and not the rapists!? Talk about blame the Victim!. This reminds me of a cases a few years ago of a bunch of jocks who were charged with statutory rape for having sex with a mentally disabled girl!. I doesn't matter if she consents , because she is not fit to consent!. For the same reason if you show up to your lawyers office to sign a contract or other legal document!. if he let's you sign that document , he could lose his license because you aren't competent!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

what about if you are so drunk you black out (but are still conscious, just cant remember what you did) and you dont remember a damn thing!? Does that count!?

If its two adults I dont think anyone is taking advantage especially if they are both intoxicated but it sure does suck when it happens with someone you know well and you have to face that person the next day!!!Www@FoodAQ@Com

If they're both drunk, then yeah who cares!?
But I think it's kinda wrong to sleep with someone if they are drunk and you are sober, just because you KNOW they would probably not normally do it sober, and therefore you could prevent them from doing something they regret!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

Taking advantage of someone in that condition, regardless of whether or not they are at fault, is completely immoral!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

You're right!. If a girl doesn't want to be in that situation, the choice is obvious: DON'T DRINK!.

And this IS a possible option!. I don't drink!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

Your right!.
It's not taking advantage,
it's their choice!.


~MITD for Best Answer!Www@FoodAQ@Com

i wish i ever have the oppertunity to take advantage!.!.!.!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

i totally agree with what your saying if the girl gets drunk its al her fault with what happens to herWww@FoodAQ@Com

This is so controversal i love it!.!.!.!.
Ur both exactly right!.!.!.!.
its really only 50% the girl and 50% the guy!.!. the majority of the time the guy is drunk too so u can argue its not taking advantage but just going with the flow of things!.!.!.!.

if the guy isnt drunk then this a major ordeal with if hes a good guy or not (most guys who thinkthey cant get the sober girl just go for it)!.!.!.!. personally i think ive been sober when im with a drunk girl once at a party (its a party ppl why would i be sober more then once hah)!.!.!. i didnt have sex with her because i knew she liked me and her time would come

personality of the man has everything to do with it considering a horny drunk girl gives it up to essentially ne1 (yes this is mean to say but 95% true and u know it)
in my opinion being a respectful mature guy when the girls drunk is all u can do b/c drama will occur lol

if there is no stopping her dont b a ***** but u should resist the first couple times she groped u////// and look after her if she goes to another penis b/c u know her sober personalty would b mad if she knew u let her get prego at the party
when there is no stopping it,,, this may sound greedy but make sure its with the sober guy (this case u)!.!.!.!. and make sure to give her a good time!.!. i say forplay doesnt end at sobriety!.!.!. u better still get her off a couple times before u even take it out (unless she begs u for the special)
ok
dont take everything to heart ppl!.!. mood changes my responses and vulgerity changes with sleep
congrats on the best question of the day!Www@FoodAQ@Com

It doesn't matter what my opinion is, but I'll tell you anyhow !. !. !. later!.

I had a bunkmate in jail who was a rapist!. He preferred females, which was fine by me!. We got along fine!. He had been convicted of something called third degree rape, which I had never heard of!. He got a young lady drunk before he had his wicked way with her!. She was sixteen, which was the age of consent in that state, but the drinking age was twenty-one!. He also took some pictures of her playing with herself, and the legal age for pictures is eighteen, so he got convicted of child pornography as well!. I got out of jail after three weeks and he went to court again and ended up in the state prison!.

I'm reminded of the story about a girl who went to the bank to cash a check!. When she was told there were insufficient funds, she said "I've been raped!"Www@FoodAQ@Com

Legally, taking advantage of a drunk is considered rape!. What I don't know is whether the charge can be pressed if both parties were drunk!. Can you have two-way rape under these circumstances!?

I'm afraid that I'd be challenged for cause before being empaneled for a jury on a rape case involving drinking!. I'm with you on this!. Why should women be treated differently from men when they get drunk!? Can they claim that crashing their cars is not their fault because they were drunk!?

On the other hand, I find the idea of sex with a drunken woman repugnant!. I like my efforts to be appreciated!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

It's pretty sick to believe that it's someone's fault for getting raped!.

In most states, taking advantage of a drunk person, man or woman, is considered rape!. It's called statutory rape!. In short, it's illegal to have sex with someone who can't consent!. Being underage or under the influence (or mentally incompetent due to developmental or emotional difficulties) means that legally, you can't consent to sex!. Whether you agree with it or not, that is the legal definition!.

There are a couple of reasons why people aren't getting arrested right and left!. The primary one is that people who love each other like to have sex and sometimes do it after drinking!. If neither person feels as though they were taken advantage of/raped, they aren't going to press charges!. Big duh there!.

Having sex with someone when they don't want you to is rape, plain and simple!. It doesn't matter if they're drunk or sober!. It's certainly foolish for a woman to get drunk around someone she can't trust, but consenting to being drunk is in no way consenting to having sex!. Isn't that obvious!?Www@FoodAQ@Com





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