I have been celibate ,drugfree and teetotal for a year tomorrow?!
I'm sorry you missed THE party, All the girls were asking about you. You stay right where you are. I'll take up your slack
How about just living the way the majority of people do?
ie. Dating with accompanying sexual relations at whatever speed you feel is appropriate, alcohol in moderation/occasionally, no hard drugs.
It doesn't have to be black or white issue.
If being saintly is what will make you happy, then do that. I really can't recommend binging on everything for a week though.
Do what is going to make you happy.
You don't have to go from one extreme to the other but I'm sure you will have noticed the difference when you stopped drinking and drug taking.
It's your choice, nobody else's.
Whatever makes you happy....obviously the saintly ways are healthier..
Well i guess I am a saint then. I suggest you continue with the 'saint' life.