1st Birthday RSVP Wording?!
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RSVP: Please indicate number of adults attending accompanied by the names and ages of children attending please.
just have people call to respond. it's a kid's bday party, not a wedding or black tie event! when they call you, just ask how old their kids are. or you can just guess, I mean these are people you already know right? if the caterer has to know how many kids meals, you can figure out what kids are under 12 probably.