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Question: Um alright!.!.Question!.!.!.!?
Ok I'm a minor, 15, and I love getting drunk!. When I know my parents are sleeping I'll go and do some shots of vodka and even steal some of my dads beer!. This is a bad thing I know!.!.!.I can't help it though!. Not really!. In a way I guess I use it as therapy!. When I was younger I was molested and that affected me bad!. Now I'm dealing with my dad constantly riding me bout small stupid stuff and my mom never being home!. What can I do to keep myself from drinking!? AA is out of the question (lol)!. I want to do it to where my parents don't know what's going on!. I love getting drunk but I hate being a drunk ya know!? Especially at only 15!.!.!.Www@FoodAQ@Com


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You are 15 and your whole life is ahead of you, life is full of pain, you cant numb it with booze, cause when you sober up the pain is still there!. Parenting doesnt come with a PHd we all make mistakes, and your parents are so busy they cant see the pain you are in!. I know this sounds cliche' but what doesnt kill you will make you stronger, your past experience has scarred you, but dont let that idiot who hurt you get the best of you, by messing up your life!. Dont let that person win!.!.!.!.You fight back and just say NO, get involved in a group, a museum, volunteer at an animal shelter!. Contact and area nursing home and become an adopter grandaughter, to those poor souls that are left alone at the end of their lives, you will bring so much joy to them!.Do something for others that will make you feel good about you!.
You are a survivor, and down the road, you can help other kids that are going through what you went through!. You need to talk to mom and dad, tell them how much you need them, especially mom!.
You are going to be fine, you dont like drinking and thats a first step!.!.!.!.!.
Hugs to you!.!.!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

Sounds like you have more hurtles to jump over besides alcohol, and you don't need to give yourself more problems, do you!? The best way to go is to prove to yourself that you still have control of your life in other ways!. Make a plan and keep moving foreword towards it, and know learn how to combat the things in your way!. Find activities that you enjoy doing, and listen to music that makes you happy!. You will get to drink more and really enjoy it when you get older, and you dont want to ruin those years
Good luckWww@FoodAQ@Com

See your doctor!. Your parents probably NEED to know, because you need help!. !. !.A clinic may be able to keep something like that confidential, but since you are a minor, I don't know if they would for sure honestly!. But you'll need their help really in the long run, if this is truely a serious problem and not something you can easily stop!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

Every time u take a shoot think about u becoming an alcoholic and when u have kids always being drunk and not knowing whats happening to them and maybe the same thing will happen to them if your not there !.Ignore your parents I know its super hard but don't let them win!.If u drink your letting them get to u which is meaning they winWww@FoodAQ@Com

try seeing if you can talk to a counselor at school, or convince your parents that you need some therapy!. what goes on in sessions cannot be discussed with your parents unless you give permission!. that way you can get all of your issues out in the open and start getting you life on track!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

alcohol wont fix anything ,, it will only make it worse
please, please stop now!
it will only make you more depressed, hurt your health, hurt your family ,
i wish i could adopt you so you get the help you need
my dad was an alcoholic, he died!.!.!.!.!.
my boyfriend was an alcoholic, he stopped drinking and 2 years later we got engaged!!!!(june 7 th!. last night )!.if you ever want to see that day for you ,,,,, stop now !!! or be like my dad !!Www@FoodAQ@Com

Try Alateen!.

http://www!.al-anon!.alateen!.org/alateen!.h!.!.!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

I guess if it's something you want to do!.!.!.
find some friends who are into that kind
of thing too!. You are setting yourself up
for a life of struggles though!.!.!.!.

Take Care!.Www@FoodAQ@Com





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